When I lived in Hawaii with my uncle doing construction work for him, my brother copied the key to my bike. So he can just ride it whenever he wanted. He copied my key at some point before I left for Hawaii so he could ride my bike while I was at work or school or whatever. Who fuckin does that?
How about that time when we were kids when pointed a gun to my face and thought it was funny. (Should my dad should have secured the gun better, yes, but that's beside the point.)
My mom didn't know these things before but she knows how. So again, you're asking me to make peace with this person?
Why am I the one who has the decision to solve this situation, when I'm not the one who fucking caused it?