Thank you for taking the time to write the detailed explanation. I'll put it to use the next time I head out (if the rain ever stops).
Yes, I can drive a manual transmission car. It has been several years, but I have no recollection of the car ever lurching, and I'm certain I never did any equivalent of blipping the car.
The passenger's helmet only clicks mine occasionally at the end of a stop, never during the sort of "re-acceleration" after slowing for a red stoplight turning green that in other situations causes the lurching.
While I appreciate people's concerns for my passenger, the idea that they think I do not worry about him is very disconcerting (Also addressed in my response to spdt509 earlier today.). Who would not feel horrible if their passenger died, no matter how much experience they had? I am not suggesting more experience isn't better, and I can understand more experienced riders wanting to warn newer riders, but saying a year or 10,000 miles of experience is needed seems random to me, other than perhaps those are numbers where on the basis of that narrative information alone others might be less likely to question a person's actual riding level. What would be more constructive would be a list of skills, courses, or tests that could be used to assess a capability level for various travel scenarios. I haven't had time to explore the section of the forum that deals with passengers, but definitely plan to. In any case, I neither had nor have any plans to take him on the highway any time soon.