I miss debaucherama, oddly enough, my wife used to work those parties at the absinthe bar, long before we were actually dating, but would both be there.
Indeed.
We also have the BEST company christmas parties
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I miss debaucherama, oddly enough, my wife used to work those parties at the absinthe bar, long before we were actually dating, but would both be there.
Indeed.
We also have the BEST company christmas parties
Abacinator
Unholy Blasphemies
I had no idea BARF was so depraved! 
Keep up the good work
Keep up the good work
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What is PE?
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Power Exchange.
Small world- I had my first absinthe experience there!
I miss it, too; best rooftop lounge ever...
Sane_Man
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There are lots of cool clubs, but none of them are in the Yay Area.
Been to quite a few nice ones in the MD/VA area that were mostly invitation only clubs. Used to date this one lady who had friends who hosted their own private parties that we went too. There are some that have paid membership, but you have to be referred by someone on the inside. Keeps out the pervs who only want to get in on someone else's playtime.
Been to quite a few nice ones in the MD/VA area that were mostly invitation only clubs. Used to date this one lady who had friends who hosted their own private parties that we went too. There are some that have paid membership, but you have to be referred by someone on the inside. Keeps out the pervs who only want to get in on someone else's playtime.
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There are invitation-only clubs/parties in the Bay Area, too...and they're pretty damn cool!
Squidly McSmearstain
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There are invitation-only clubs/parties in the Bay Area, too...and they're pretty damn cool!
Okay SERIOUSLY. I'm simply being voyeuristic and curious. I'm positive Mrs. Squidly wouldn't be interested in participating, and to be honest, outside of enjoying the visual fun I'm not sure that I would REALLY want to participate either.
STILL............
I can't help wondering how does one get on the invitation list? I'm guessing a t-shirt with the caption "I like to fuck in crowds and I'm polite" isn't the normal approach.
In my mind I'm envisioning either a real life version of the more erotic scenes from Eyes Wide Shut
OR
Some of the skankier gang-bang scenes from Tube8 (which I learned about from this thread
).It's a BIG world out there. I thought I was living on the edge by going to OFG's house for the Sink party. What a newb I am........
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:heart: this thread.
Just to clarify terms, shaving the balls is NOT the same as waxing your body back to kindergarten.
It the difference between this:
this:
and this:
Just to clarify terms, shaving the balls is NOT the same as waxing your body back to kindergarten.
It the difference between this:
this:
and this:
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So who's going to start a BARF FetLife group? 
Steve
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this thread too! MysterYvil
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Just for the record, I've been to a LOT of parties, but never been to a "must play" party. No one is ever expected to play (with their partner and/or with others), even if you've done so in the past. Rules of all the venues to which I've been, and a subcultural rule as well. And there's lots of visual fun to be had if that's your interest.
Mrs. and I got our first invite the first time we went to PE. Basically, there's folks out there "scouting" for likely attendees for the more exclusive parties. He gave us a card and a name, and we went from there.STILL............
I can't help wondering how does one get on the invitation list? I'm guessing a t-shirt with the caption "I like to fuck in crowds and I'm polite" isn't the normal approach.
In my mind I'm envisioning either a real life version of the more erotic scenes from Eyes Wide Shut
OR
Some of the skankier gang-bang scenes from Tube8 (which I learned about from this thread
It's a BIG world out there. I thought I was living on the edge by going to OFG's house for the Sink party. What a newb I am........
Also, many of the parties advertise on the internet. They typically screen attendees, judging them by their email responses. The first time or two your behavior is observed, and unless you're totally obnoxious or your break the rules you're good to go. And BTW, physical appearance isn't much of an issue (you'd be surprised how many people are into all kinds of different types of beauty), though for some venues being nicely dressed and clean is.
Go to enough events, the word goes around, and more invitations come your way. There's been a fair number of "private gatherings" in the Bay Area over the past few years that only select from folks who have a rep as being respectful and drama-free.
I'm far too lazy to start and moderate one, but I'd join one in a heartbeat!So who's going to start a BARF FetLife group?
Steve
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What the shit is this...
Just for the record, I've been to a LOT of parties, but never been to a "must play" party. No one is ever expected to play (with their partner and/or with others), even if you've done so in the past. Rules of all the venues to which I've been, and a subcultural rule as well. And there's lots of visual fun to be had if that's your interest.
Mrs. and I got our first invite the first time we went to PE. Basically, there's folks out there "scouting" for likely attendees for the more exclusive parties. He gave us a card and a name, and we went from there.
Also, many of the parties advertise on the internet. They typically screen attendees, judging them by their email responses. The first time or two your behavior is observed, and unless you're totally obnoxious or your break the rules you're good to go. And BTW, physical appearance isn't much of an issue (you'd be surprised how many people are into all kinds of different types of beauty), though for some venues being nicely dressed and clean is.
Go to enough events, the word goes around, and more invitations come your way. There's been a fair number of "private gatherings" in the Bay Area over the past few years that only select from folks who have a rep as being respectful and drama-free.
I'm far too lazy to start and moderate one, but I'd join one in a heartbeat!
Noted. I'm gonna keep an eye on where this conversation is going.
Lylith
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THIS!
Talk about self-fulfilling fail.
Jeez man, it's basic preparedness. You don't seem the type to head into the mountains without a set of chains in the car, just because the forecast is mostly clear. Anything can happen, much better to be ready if it does.
THIS!
SO NOT THIS!
So who's going to start a BARF FetLife group?
Steve
Now I wish I hadn't closed my FetLife account!
