OP- get the best gear that you can afford to buy. Gloves are important, because hands that work are important. If you can afford it, gloves with kangaroo skin on the palms is the best. The leather is very thin and supple, yet has a much higher abrasion resistance than cowhide.
Yes, gear is expensive.
Yes, it's a big cash outlay all at once.
Shop e-bay, shop places like RevZilla, check out what BARFers are selling.
But spend the money.
In the event that you crash, it can mean the difference between getting up, dusting yourself off, and riding home... or getting skin grafts.