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Girlfriend wants a bike

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I second all the comments about buying cheap, buying used, keep it in your name, etc. I have gone this route before. It'll be easy come, easy go for her if you give her a bike. You want to give her the benefit of the doubt, but she hasn't obtained a motorcycle by now of her own volition. She's probably not that interested.

I bought a cheap, used beginner bike, and proceeded to massage it into something reliable. I flushed all fluids, adjusted valves, replaced the air filter, serviced brakes and fork -- all that. The gf would try it out sporadically. I would take her to a city college parking lot and set up cones to practice. She'd get angry when she couldn't do something, wouldn't listen to instruction, and would rage quit after about 30 minutes. Over the next few months, whenever she was bored and complaining about having nothing to do, I'd say, "How about we go practice riding motorcycles?" Nah, weather wasn't perfect, she had a headache, was too tired, etc. Litany of excuses.

I commuted on the thing for awhile but it just sucked not having any power so I sold it. You want to preserve your right to sell it if she gives up on it.
 
You should buy my 2012 Ninjette and let her ride it in empty parking lots on sunny days.
 
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Isn't she on here? Why isn't she chiming in on the discussion of what bike she wants?

I'm of the opinion that she wants a damn bike, she should buy it. If she's a fully capable adult, she can buy her own damn bike. And yes, I'm a girl saying this.
 
LOL don't do it!

Guys buying/building bikes for their GF's never turns out the way you want it to
 
Get a legit garage first and then start looking at bikes for the lady. Grom could be fun for both of you.
 
Get a legit garage first and then start looking at bikes for the lady. Grom could be fun for both of you.

Adopt me :p

I need to post on BARF about moving to Castro Valley or Fremont...
 
Isn't she on here? Why isn't she chiming in on the discussion of what bike she wants?

I'm of the opinion that she wants a damn bike, she should buy it. If she's a fully capable adult, she can buy her own damn bike. And yes, I'm a girl saying this.

We don't need that sort of nuclear detonation .... lmao.....
 
Isn't she on here? Why isn't she chiming in on the discussion of what bike she wants?

I'm of the opinion that she wants a damn bike, she should buy it. If she's a fully capable adult, she can buy her own damn bike. And yes, I'm a girl saying this.

Thank god doc said exactly what I was thinking.

I'm in debt too. Motorcycles certainly don't help that, but I'll suck it up: work full-time, move back with the parents so I can save on rent, only eat 1 meal a day plus snacks (helps my diet too), and live as frugally as possible.

But I bought my own bike.

Then again, Andrew said she was spoiled and he's dating her so I guess it works out :laughing
 
Thank god doc said exactly what I was thinking.

I'm in debt too. Motorcycles certainly don't help that, but I'll suck it up: work full-time, move back with the parents so I can save on rent, only eat 1 meal a day plus snacks (helps my diet too), and live as frugally as possible.

But I bought my own bike.

Then again, Andrew said she was spoiled and he's dating her so I guess it works out :laughing

She does cook super good (well) but not enough to convince me to buy her a bike :laughing:laughing:laughing
 
Ugh. Bad idea.

If doing anything at all, XR100 with BT45s on supermoto track.

At least then you can race it yourself in mini-moto.
 
Ugh. Bad idea.

If doing anything at all, XR100 with BT45s on supermoto track.

At least then you can race it yourself in mini-moto.

That sounds pretty cool... but I do have a KX125 already
 
Have her take the MSF course first, or whatever it's called now. She might not want to ride after taking that class.
 
I dunno, man. One of my ex's told me she wanted a bike too. Except she didn't want to register for the MSF and get her M1. At the time was when I had bought my first Ninja 250, over a year ago.

I told her, look, I'll buy you a bicycle as a starter... :rofl

Female fists and slaps can hurt, you know. :teeth
 
Have her take the MSF course first, or whatever it's called now. She might not want to ride after taking that class.

she's way beyond that ... lol... read the thread..
 
I dunno, man. One of my ex's told me she wanted a bike too. Except she didn't want to register for the MSF and get her M1. At the time was when I had bought my first Ninja 250, over a year ago.

I told her, look, I'll buy you a bicycle as a starter... :rofl

Female fists and slaps can hurt, you know. :teeth

tell me about it. I get hit at least twice a day :rofl
 
If you don't want it I'd be interested. Was looking for a dirt cheap commuter since I sold my KLR.

Plus my gf has been talking about riding too! :rofl

God help us.

KLR250? How are those. I want a fun dual sport to camp on and harass my neighbors but don't know much
 
Whammy says

Have her take the MSF course first, or whatever it's called now. She might not want to ride after taking that class.



I have to start with this above. but! GF in debt up the whaaazooo..... thanks for playing.:thumbdown
GF wants you to buy her a bike, but doesn't ride on street.:thumbdown
GF expects you to pay for insurance cause she is broke as a joke.:thumbdown
GF cooks good but not good enough?
GF gets bike, you pay the insurance, and she wrecks.:thumbdown

Do you see where this is going?
If she wants to play she needs to bring more to the table.
Spoiled is a relative term... its whos doing the spoiling whos wrong here.
This cant end well.
 
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