I'm not for giving more power to the school with regards to discipline. Teachers are not the people I want disciplining kids. They are full of bias, they play favorites, they pick on certain students, and it's simply not fair.
What you describe above isn't a teacher, but a bully who happens to be taking an important job from someone better able to perform it. Yet... 'fair' doesn't have anything to do with it. Everyone is full of bias. Recognizing and teaching through a bias is perfectly natural. It is also perfectly okay to have 'favorite' students - as long as every other student gets your best efforts too. Having favorites and teaching every student can be mutually
inclusive.
As a teacher, I don't
want to have to to discipline your student! I have the education for
A LOT of other students to worry about as well. I am sure that if you haven't already, you will raise a child that is respectful. Your child will have decent social skills, sound judgment and can get through a 6-8 hour day without engaging in some form of maladaptive behavior that will disrupt the learning environment.
Unfortunately, that is
not usually the case for a large percentage of students. Currently I spend at least the first week just on behavior expectations - from high school students!! In younger grades I have seen teachers do this for up to
three weeks. That is valuable instruction time we give up so that we can eventually get past behaviors and get down to the very fun, yet serious business of education.
I want to leave you with a thought. Much of the reason that administrators run around making stupid decisions is because they are scared. Stone-cold terrified that something (which may not be within their control) will occur and they will
incur litigation or prosecution. It usually means a ruined career - sometimes over (what should be) small stuff. Why? Part of it is a society that makes (sometimes unreasonable) demands from educators but assumes very little responsibility in assisting educators with meeting those demands (in many ways effectively countering all efforts). Now I am not blaming parents. They are only a part of it. Terrible/lazy/stupid teachers are a part as well. Ineffective administrators, greedy supervisors, meddling politicians, an increasing sense of entitlement amongst the citizenry... the list goes on and on and on. I don't say this to excuse any behavior from anyone - only to point out that on all fronts we, as a nation, are doing a questionable job at this (critically important) education 'business'. Sorry, touched a nerve, I guess...
Peace,
John