Well. Tonight I actually mentioned this kind of to the Mrs. Talking Dreams and riding me retirement. I don’t think I mentioned I had not spoke about this to MRS Budman.
I kind of take my own course here and there when I figure it is better to ask forgiveness vs ask for permission. I cringe at the thought of needing permission to do something I really want to do that is not stepping on those marriage vow toes.
This is something that needs to be shared with your partner.
She is really supportive even when she knows she would prefer whatever. Buying a Corvette 5 or so years ago is a good example. She said no.
I brought one home. After the initial WTF it was all good.
So I was watching a moto traveling vid tonight and saying how much I have been enjoying them and having bitchen dreams and I am looking forward to retiring so I can go explore.
She was of course like where,,, how long..?
I explained that I want to see the national parks and do some of the stuff that she is not interested in. Nothing super negative.
She said I would like to get an Air BNB in So cal on the beach and bring the dogs invite that Fam etc.
I was 100% in and said doing that for a couple weeks would be sweet
… it is in the list!
The I said I will need support when traveling by sending clothes care packages to Motels so I don’t have to waste a bunch of time washing clothes and
Probably once every ten days or so.
She smiled and said sure because like me doing things to make my partner happy makes me happy. She was pleasantly engaged.
First step taken.
I will work up to the 3 months conversation.
Maybe fly home once or twice if I get a big push back.
Basically as far as I am concerned I got a green light and that makes me happy.
