(hopefully wendy will catch this thread, though i've never met her).
stories?
awwwww
hmm, where did I learn to cook

Well, I pale into insignificance compared to other cooks on barf, but with that said:
I did *not* learn from my stepmother

For the most part I learn from my mistakes
I used to watch a lot of the food cooking shows, I didn't really care which ones, but I never paid attention to the recipes, just how they used ingredients together. I read cookbooks, again not necessarily for the recipes, although I do use them
For the most part it really is having an imagination, but based on a solid foundation. I went to the Home Chef twelve class "the basics of cooking" series. Shows you how to make different sauces, roux based etc etc. Different ways of cooking meats (braising versus broiling etc - which I knew already coming from a poor background alls we did was braise cheap meat

) I skipped the baking ones cos I can't bake to save my life, and have no real desire to.
Now I just make things up as I go along. I use the basics (things like mire poix) in all sorts of cheap meat dishes which turn out fantastic, I don't cook things in a hurry. I plan ahead and think of the timings of each dish. Then get drunk and it all goes out the window
Rule of thumb at my house if you come for dinner is that I will cook, you are on your own for serving
Get the basics, use your imagination, and don't be afraid. F00k it, if it is crap, who cares, you're drunk anyway
