I'm glad you used the word creepy, it reminds me of an article I recently read about sex and relationships. The article touches specifically on the fact that men are sometimes labeled "creeps" when it really is not applicable. The article is written by a woman, and as a man I thought the article was a really good read.
http://www.alternet.org/story/14829...re_honest_about_their_sexual_needs?paging=off
Just to be clear, I don't necessarily disagree with what you wrote DucatiHoney, I only quoted you because you happened to use the word creepy and it triggered me to think of the article.