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My Dating Situation (by request))

lefty

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Joined
Sep 24, 2002
Location
Menlo Park, CA USA
Moto(s)
'05 ZRX1200
Name
Ed
My Dating Situation is great. The lady that I've been seeing is really wonderful. She is a great person who has a 'really sick and twisted' sense of humor. She was teasing me about the "Two girls, One Cup" video for weeks!!! I had never seen it until she told me to go look it up.

After that, she kept offering me 'ice cream cones':laughing.

She is a dog-nut as well. She insists that I bring the dogs over everytime I visit her. This is great, but it puts a damper on my m/c riding. She has agreed to go on a m/c ride with me.

She has learned to 'relax' about my beer drinking as well, now that she see's that I am not going to turn into Mr. Hyde. She offers me a beer every night.

She is totally gung-ho (no pun intended):laughing for doing any outdoor activity!! I told her about my love for hiking/backpacking at Henry Coe Park, and she said "When?". I took her on a turture hike to one of my favorite fishin' holes and she LOVED it!!!!

She caught her 1st fish and had a blast!!! I did have to bait her hooks and remove all the fish from her hook, so she is still 'girly' in some respects:thumbup We argued over who caught the most fish.

She is an avid mtn biker and has taken me on many great trails. We love the same kind of movies,,,,, but she watches that Court TV crap while I'm in bed trying to sleep. That bugs the hell outta me...... I'm trying to doze off and all I can hear (besides the snoring of her Beagle) is; "The muderer crept in through an opened window and killed the family while they slept...." Just the thing you wanna hear as you fall fast asleep......

Her kids are great......., er, her Daughters (13 and 17 y/o) are great!!! They are soo cool and funny. They tell me that they "Love Me" and my heart melts. They love my dogs (Pitties). Their Beagle has some 'issues'. I'm sure they appreciate how wonderful a properly trained dog behaves.

Her Son is 19 going on 12, 'nuff said. (ps- does anyone know any Army recruiters?)

I've met all of her family. They are all awesome. They really like me because I've been a positive influence on the kids, especially the son (he's now working).

I need to be more 'healthy' and change some of the 'unhealthy' things that I've been doing in this relationship. I have a tendancy to go 'overboard' with my generosity, at the beginning of a relationship- and then later, I act perplexed when the Woman has turned into a spoiled witch!!!

So, I have told her that I need to stop buying/cooking dinner for the entire family 4-5 nights/week. I do not mind cooking at all. In fact, I LOVE to cook and I'm flattered that they LOVE my cooking--- I just do not to be paying for dinner every night. That is one of my unhealthy habits.

So, that's it in a nutshell.

Thanks for asking Aluisious:thumbup
 
good job dude, its nice to see a classic BARF tale of woe have a happy ending.
 
Sounds like a fine thing, and good on ya for both the boundary setting and the lub.
 
Congrats Lefty! You are obviously the kind of guy that most of us would want our sister to date and this woman is very lucky. She seems to be a very good match for you and things sound like they are moving along fine (with the exception of the pre-teen (but not) son of hers).

p.s. Seems like she might be hinting at some latent kinky behavior that could be tapped into though hopefully it isn't that (two girls, One Cup) extreme!
 
How much weight have you gained since you've been dating her, Lefty? :twofinger

(j/k)
:teeth
 
Congrats Lefty! You are obviously the kind of guy that most of us would want our sister to date and this woman is very lucky. She seems to be a very good match for you and things sound like they are moving along fine (with the exception of the pre-teen (but not) son of hers).

p.s. Seems like she might be hinting at some latent kinky behavior that could be tapped into though hopefully it isn't that (two girls, One Cup) extreme!


That's REALLY nice of you to say!!!! Thank You!!!

Please send me your Sisters measurements and income level. :laughing j/k!!!!!

RacerCutie- I've gained about 7 lbs (moo moo).

Thanks alot EVERYONE for all of the support and advice.

One thing that does concern me is this; she is VERY close to her kids (duh) and whenever I mention travel.... she gets excited,,,, but then she says... "later". I sorta feel like I'll still be hearing those words in a couple of years....... I hope that she will enjoy the postcards that I will send her, because I want travel.
 
Hoorah! Things are going well! That is terrific!
 
but then she says... "later". I sorta feel like I'll still be hearing those words in a couple of years....... I hope that she will enjoy the postcards that I will send her, because I want travel.


blah blah blah

how old is she Lefty? Imma bet fiddy that you hear some form of "later" for the next twenty years. Variations:
maybe
we'll see
remind me next week and let's discuss
oh that weekend isn't good (without offering an alternative)
when? (playing deaf now)

:laughing

(don't ask me how I know
<-- crotchety old lady who won't go anywhere :rofl)
 
Congrats to both of you!



but i'm jsut gonna be bitter until my life is all happy and joyous like yours :x:twofinger
 
I can't believe that nobody has asked for pics. So I'm going to step up...

PICS OR IT ISN'T HAPPENING

:x
 
I like how you avoided my question. But, since you're in your 40s? (late 30s?), i'm going to assume she does. Because... we all know they do when they're in their prime. :thumbup
 
Grats! :thumbup

After having a nice dinner on our first proper date together, she tossed some cash at me when we got the check. After I glanced at her questioningly she said, "What? I said you had to take me out on a proper date before you could bed me but it's only right to go dutch on dates." :love Needless to say, we're getting married. :rofl
 
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