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Online Dating, whats your experience?

Whats new anyone?

As lame as it may sound, I've had a no SF dating rule since I live in the East Bay. With dogs and work, I don't feel I have the time to date an SF girl.

My luck....go on a date with cute 28 year old. 1st date goes great. She mentions moving to SF may happen since she lives in deep concord and BART takes 2+ hours from her day since she works in SF. I RARELY kiss on date #1 but after dinner and walking to her car I went for it.

Its official, she's moving to SF for at least 3 months.

We went out again Sunday and it was a great time again. Saw Silver Linnings Playbook and did sushi. She's goofy and not pretentious. We're already making fun of each other. It's awesome!

Not sure bout the SF thing PLUS why would a singly girl date a guy in across the bridge with all the single dudes out there??
 
Whats new anyone?

As lame as it may sound, I've had a no SF dating rule since I live in the East Bay. With dogs and work, I don't feel I have the time to date an SF girl.

My luck....go on a date with cute 28 year old. 1st date goes great. She mentions moving to SF may happen since she lives in deep concord and BART takes 2+ hours from her day since she works in SF. I RARELY kiss on date #1 but after dinner and walking to her car I went for it.

Its official, she's moving to SF for at least 3 months.

We went out again Sunday and it was a great time again. Saw Silver Linnings Playbook and did sushi. She's goofy and not pretentious. We're already making fun of each other. It's awesome!

Not sure bout the SF thing PLUS why would a singly girl date a guy in across the bridge with all the single dudes out there??

Maybe she likes you?
 
As lame as it may sound, I've had a no SF dating rule since I live in the East Bay. With dogs and work, I don't feel I have the time to date an SF girl.

Not sure bout the SF thing PLUS why would a singly girl date a guy in across the bridge with all the single dudes out there??

:wtf You're joking, right?

People travel a LOT further than that to see others. Across the BB is nothing, try 2 hours.
 
men will travel extreme distances to score. Wimmens like to sit like a Queen and have suitors come to them for attendance. :p

There's probably a mathematical formula describing distance, desperation, relative hawtness and chance to "score". :p

:wtf You're joking, right?

People travel a LOT further than that to see others. Across the BB is nothing, try 2 hours.
 
Not sure bout the SF thing PLUS why would a singly girl date a guy in across the bridge with all the single dudes out there??

fer fuck sake dubs, sounds like she might actually like you you knucklehead.

commuting to SF is nothing. NOTHING!

sure, it'll make mid week stuff difficult but guess what; sometimes that's good. save the kissy kissy for the weekends when you can spend quality time together or some shit.

get a bike again, it makes getting in and out of sf way easier. yes, you might have to lower the paper target murder budget a little..

who knows, maybe you'll like hanging out in SF.
 
:wtf You're joking, right?

People travel a LOT further than that to see others. Across the BB is nothing, try 2 hours.

I imagine Dubbs having panic attacks at just the mere thought of leaving his city's limits. :laughing
 
:wtf You're joking, right?

People travel a LOT further than that to see others. Across the BB is nothing, try 2 hours.

You don't recall his "Can't date outside of CoCo" posts?

:laughing

Dubby, you seem awfully picky for a single dude.
 
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You don't recall his "Can't date outside of CoCo" posts?

:laughing

Dubby, you seem awfully picky for a single dude.

CoCo is way too big of a range for him. I recall a post bitching about a girl that lived in Oaklamd and that's a lot closer and convenient to him than large parts of CoCo!
 
CoCo is way too big of a range for him. I recall a post bitching about a girl that lived in Oaklamd and that's a lot closer and convenient to him than large parts of CoCo!

Oh no, CoCo girl didn't have a car, still in college. SF girl has a great job, done with school. Will be without a car for a couple months until her car permit for parking gets in.

I don't think I'm picky. I'm just overly logical and realistic.
 
Idk. Im picky about the "range" of my dating. Its pretty much limited to 45 minute drive any direction.

Which includes Salinas, and Santa Cruz.
 
Oh no, CoCo girl didn't have a car, still in college. SF girl has a great job, done with school. Will be without a car for a couple months until her car permit for parking gets in.

I don't think I'm picky. I'm just overly logical and realistic.

Relationships built on logic and realism are guaranteed to fail.
 
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