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Hey @ST Guy can you stop mansplaining how to deal with mental health in the thread I started? It's exactly what I asked people not to do. Coming at people like, "Hey I have no clue what you are going through but here's how to deal with it" is the opposite of helpful. I'm getting chapped with your way of communication and would like you not to derail the thread if, as you claim, you have never had a mental health problem. Your comments are NOT SUPPORTIVE.

Please and thanks.
WTF?
 
so somebody just honked at me , when I was dropping someone off.

so I pass the intersection, brake and signal to pull over, and the preppydickface with THE NISSAN, a compact, BUT SUV, in two tone police white ROOF something, behind me, honks IMMEDIATELLY... .

LIKE WTF?

TLDR; I pull over with signalling, but they (he) honk.

makes me so angry, I'll double park like every single mom out there, next time, instead of pulling over

this is how people treat small cars :x

...
but then I see people have bigger problems 🧵👆
 
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It's amazing how someone can know everything about everything... except how to take a hint.
I directly asked and he doubled down. I’m just going to ask that the thread be locked.
 
This is why we can’t have nice things.
 
If you guys are blaming me, you are way off the mark.

If you aren’t blaming me, then carry on.
 
If you guys are blaming me, you are way off the mark.

If you aren’t blaming me, then carry on.
I am 100%, absolutely, without a doubt blaming you. Hopefully that's not too subtle for you.
 
TWT, would you be willing to start an invitation only thread? This is a very important subject to many. Thank you for trying!
I can’t do that. There are tools that could solve the issue at hand but I don’t have access to them.
If you guys are blaming me, you are way off the mark.

If you aren’t blaming me, then carry on.
yes. I am blaming you. You said you would leave and then doubled down. I’m going to ask the thread be locked because I am sick of your shit.
 
I said:

“ If you want a thread that offers just grousing about one’s problems and offers no suggestions for improving one’s life, then I’m out of here.”

I put a caveat about my leaving. It would seem that you do want a thread for grousing with no suggestions for creating a meaningful life.

And i have seen no posts re how I minimized anyone or anything. Why don’t you point them out to me so I can learn from them?
 
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You claimed to not have any mental health issues, then proceeded to tell others how to manage theirs.
The person who started the thread has asked you multiple times to stop posting.


Read the fucking room.

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