Post / Chat whores post here (2026)

[Brokenlink]

I said:

“ If you want a thread that offers just grousing about one’s problems and offers no suggestions for improving one’s life, then I’m out of here.”

YES, this is what we want. We want a thread where people can discuss their issues and others can empathize and support. That is a vast difference btween telling them what they should do. Look at your posts in comparison with others. Notice the use of I vs. you in your responses. It's one thing to talk about your issues and what helps you. It's another to tell them what they should do.

 

[ST Guy]

I wasn’t telling anyone what they should do. I was making suggestions.

And not having mental health problems doesn’t mean one’s suggestions don’t have value. The things I do are exactly why I don’t have mental health issues.

And I never said my suggestions were easy. On the contrary, they are difficult to do. It’s difficult to make changes to one’s thinking.

And I would ask all who jumped on me, what in your thought patterns prompted these unwarranted reactions to what I’ve said in this thread?

 

[N4teTheGreat]

I was magnetically attracted to Zeitgeist on my commute home from work, I think the warm weather makes magnets stronger, probably.

 

[mean dad]

To clarify, I didn't "jump on you". Stop being dramatic.
What you did was exactly what I posted and you just don't fucking get it so by all means carry on.
hammer that reputation home.

 

[tuxumino]

introspection is a lost art

 

[ST Guy]

I still don’t see anyone pointing out what I did wrong.

 

[Abacinator]

I still don’t see anyone pointing out what I did wrong.

Bruh

 

[augustiron]

 

[Rtmac]

 

[two wheel tramp]

 

[AbsolutEnduser]

I was on a bus.


... But BARF was down so I couldn't post.

 

[ThumperX]

Currently at the Pet ER with Joy who got tangled in some construction equipment. Looks like torn tendons. This will not be her best summer

 

[mean dad]

I still don’t see anyone pointing out what I did wrong.

Let me rephrase:
"I refuse to acknowledge anyone else's opinion, even when stated multiple times by multiple people."

 

[two wheel tramp]

Sorry to read that and sorry she is injured. That sucks.

Currently at the Pet ER with Joy who got tangled in some construction equipment. Looks like torn tendons. This will not be her best summer

I am currently really pissed off with BARF.

 

[ThumperX]

Sometimes it’s best to not fight the fight not worth fighting.

 

[two wheel tramp]

Sometimes it's better to log off, I think. I have my own forum where I don't have to put up with bullshit.

 

[mean dad]

BARF has brought many friends and much joy to my life so I try to accept the occasional pile of poop.

Lord knows I've been the pile more than once.

 

[Melissa]

defensiveness is not always about having a mental health challenge.
Shit, as a person with mental health issues and who also treats individuals who have mental health issues I suggest not to diagnose another BARFER. Just a suggestion.

 

[ThumperX]

BARF has provided tremendous support throughout some difficult times. My expanded friend base has allowed me to grow and at the same time increased my confidence, allowing me to deal with many of my own issues.

 

[Melissa]

most excellent post G!!!!