Ok, throwing my situation to the group before hiring an advisor to see if there's an easy answer from experience, or if I need economically educated advice...
I'm currently withdrawing a little less than 50% of my allotted 19,500 pre-tax into my deferred compensation plan at work. I have been paying my refinanced 3.5% mortgage on a 20yr payoff schedule. I have a 43k car loan at 3.14% that I could pay off, but it would cut my cash on hand in half (which is currently earning 1.78% compounding, so the earnings there are a near wash with the finance charge on the car). I plan on increasing my contribution to deferred comp to max, which I think I can do without any drastic changes to my life.
My question is this - I heard that perhaps losing the tax write off for the income tax may hurt more if I aim to retire early (in 20 years). I'd like to think dropping my monthly housing cost from 4400 to 1100 would allow that to happen for me (my pension would be ~3400/mo w/ COLA adjustments, not counting any other retirement income). However, someone at work (back per diem on retirement) made the comment that it was quite a sting to lose that write off on her taxes. She's young to be taking her SS, so I imagine she's not. I'm trying to prioritize what I should change if I need to. Is it a good idea to scrap the extra payment on the house regardless of my plans for the tax benefit? If it comes to needing to pay off the car, should I abandon that extra and use it to rebuild my savings?
The extra wrench is my wife. She plans on working until she probably physically can't anymore, since she likes being a teacher, so we will probably have some active income into our later years. However, her school is closing, so come June, she'll be looking for a new job (but possibly not taking anything if we end up pregnant). There's a chance that'll cause her to reconsider her life plans, but more immediately, what should my order of sacrifice be? Extra mortgage payment? Car payment (then maybe the car itself)? Extra in deferred comp? We have more than a year of her take-home pay in savings (unless we pay the car off), so there isn't an immediate scramble, but I'd like to know the order of moves I should make should money start to become an issue.