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Same Sex Marriage ban

If the government would remove themselves from the marriage process, then everything would be fine. Right now they regulate it to no end. It affects your tax rate, which it shouldn't, and they say who you can't marry, or how many wives/husbands you can have. Then if you split up with the person, they decide how to distribute your own money. If you die, they say where your money goes.

They should GTFO of this whole process and let people do as they wish.


why do you want people to marry their pets :mad



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why do you want people to marry their pets :mad



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I realize you're kidding but if they proved somehow that animals consented to and enjoyed sex with humans I wouldn't care what people did.

As of now 2 (or more) consenting adults should be able to do whatever they want.
 
A few words about the ruling:

The district court ruling was very broad, and, if upheld, would have applied to all 50 states because of it's constitutional implications. The circuit court rejected most of that broadness and instead crafted a ruling that would only apply to CA, even if SCOTUS upheld it. In essence, the majority ruling of the 3-panel appeal said "California already gives gays/lesbians every right except the use of the ceremonial title of married. Thus, the law makes no sense and is only there out of spite, so it violates equal protection". In other places where gays/lesbians have no rights as couples, then, their bans on same-sex marriages would not fall under the same argument as this ruling. Note that SCOTUS can choose to do nothing, can review and uphold the same ruling, review and create a new ruling that still overturns prop 8, or review and reverse the circuit court and keep prop 8 as law. So this is far from over.

At least one analyst (Jeff Toobin) things SCOTUS may choose to not hear the case because of the limited scope of the ruling, choosing instead to bide time and wait until they are asked to review something of national scope instead.

The dissenting opinion ruled that gays and lesbians are not a protected class worthy of special consideration like minority races, and, furthermore, the federal courts must be very careful not to intervene over states in issues of marriage. Because the California supreme court already ruled Prop 8 constitutional, he argued that their arguments were sound, federal intervention was not necessary because gays/lesbians aren't protected, and so chose to do nothing.

Of the 3 judges, the liberal and moderate upheld the lower court ruling against prop 8, while the conservative judge voted to overturn the decision. This is going to lead to lots of 'liberal activist judges of the 9th circuit court' talking points today.

Finally, I would say that if the original ruling by the district court were upheld in it's entirety, and the Supreme court either agreed or refused to hear, we'd be looking at a legalization of polygamy pretty much immediately because the same arguments would apply-- that the state can't get in the way of consenting adults. With this narrower ruling, that is not an issue because second and third wives don't have any rights in the state right now.
 
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the same argument doesn't apply bc it's not about any choice made between consenting adults, it's about the two individuals, and maintaining that any two individuals, regardless of gender, race,creed, or sexual orientation are permitted the same right as any other.
 
Its the 9th circuit decision, no surprise.

It was always the real decision would be made by the US Supreme Court.
A case with only the Presumption of proof doesn't sound like a strong case.

No Gay marriage licensing until after US Supreme decision. Celebrate then :party
 
I for one, am really looking forward to watching "Gay Divorce Court" :teeth

Oh, the DRAMA!!!!!!
 
how about the right to make medical decisions for your partner?

Civil Union Rights

In January 2005, California passed Assembly Bill 205 which extended many rights and responsibilities of marriage to domestic partnerships. Domestic partnership rights in this state now include being able to adopt and inherit, making medical decisions on the partner's behalf, offering health care coverage to partners of employees at state and local businesses, using paid time off for the domestic partner and holding power of attorney and estate executor.


Read more: California Civil Union Rights Vs. Marriage | eHow.com http://www.ehow.com/facts_7370338_california-union-rights-vs_-marriage.html#ixzz1ljMXq3Wd
 
Why the fuck does the government need to regulate the sexual lives of the citizens, exactly? Why does the government even have a say in the matter? In the spirit of keeping government small, I'd get the government out of business of licensing marriage altogether. Feel free to call me a right-wing republican extremist, if you like.

+ eleventy billion!!!1!!

Why? Because that's what Religious people in power do. Legislate from the pulpit, essentially.

This. And it pisses me off no end... combining narrow-minded religious bigotry with politics- my two most-loathed things... :thumbdown
 
Civil Union Rights

In January 2005, California passed Assembly Bill 205 which extended many rights and responsibilities of marriage to domestic partnerships. Domestic partnership rights in this state now include being able to adopt and inherit, making medical decisions on the partner's behalf, offering health care coverage to partners of employees at state and local businesses, using paid time off for the domestic partner and holding power of attorney and estate executor.


Read more: California Civil Union Rights Vs. Marriage | eHow.com http://www.ehow.com/facts_7370338_california-union-rights-vs_-marriage.html#ixzz1ljMXq3Wd
Not even close to the equal of "marriage:"

"In California, married couples can do the following but domestic partners cannot: file joint federal taxes, transfer assets to the other person without tax penalty and provide health insurance to the spouse while employed at a company outside California. Domestic partners cannot receive social security and veteran's benefits after the other person has died and immigrants cannot become U.S. citizens after partnership."

Not to mention that it limits domestic partnership to two people...

Yes, it's all here.
Which, again, doesn't work for my family. Been there, done that; only sheer luck put my "lawfully wedded" wife at my side at the time, I'd have been fucked otherwise.
 
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One thing I don't understand is that there is a federal law (can't recall exactly what it is) that makes a marriage performed in one state valid in all other states. Therefore, if a same sex couple gets married in a state that allows it, shouldn't the law make that marriage valid in all states?
 
One thing I don't understand is that there is a federal law (can't recall exactly what it is) that makes a marriage performed in one state valid in all other states. Therefore, if a same sex couple gets married in a state that allows it, shouldn't the law make that marriage valid in all states?

you would think, but our executives and legislature at the time took a shit on the constitution and passed this:

The Defense of Marriage Act (DOMA) (Pub.L. 104-199, 110 Stat. 2419, enacted September 21, 1996, 1 U.S.C. § 7 and 28 U.S.C. § 1738C) is a United States federal law whereby the federal government defines marriage as a legal union between one man and one woman. Under the law, no U.S. state (or other political subdivision) may be required to recognize as a marriage a same-sex relationship considered a marriage in another state. The law passed both houses of Congress by large majorities and was signed into law by President Bill Clinton on September 21, 1996.
 
If folks are worried about the sanctity of marriage they should direct their ire at those who break their vows not those who seek to make them.
 
Not even close to the equal of "marriage:"

"In California, married couples can do the following but domestic partners cannot: file joint federal taxes, transfer assets to the other person without tax penalty and provide health insurance to the spouse while employed at a company outside California. Domestic partners cannot receive social security and veteran's benefits after the other person has died and immigrants cannot become U.S. citizens after partnership."
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True - Federal laws haven't caught up is these legal matters. From what I heard from celebrity same sex partners. Through simple legal papers - file joint federal taxes, transfer assets to the other person without tax penalty.

That is Federal not State problem. Probably won't change if prop 8 is deemed unconstitutional. State with Same Sex marriage aren't recognized by feds.
The federal government does not recognize same-sex marriage in the United States, but such marriages are recognized by some individual states. The lack of federal recognition was codified in 1996 by the Defense of Marriage Act, before Massachusetts became the first state to grant marriage licenses to same-sex couples in 2004. Such licenses are granted by six states: Connecticut, Iowa, Massachusetts, New Hampshire, New York, and Vermont, plus Washington, D.C. and Oregon's Coquille and Washington state's Suquamish Indian tribes

Is this second point extra to same sex marriage ? A trio-marriage that is common (2-same sex and one opposite). Loaded question is this the next marriage arrangement to make amends ?
Not to mention that it limits domestic partnership to two people...

Which, again, doesn't work for my family. Been there, done that; only sheer luck put my "lawfully wedded" wife at my side at the time, I'd have been fucked otherwise

If it were up to me - Domestic Partners is all the State or any Government to license. They shouldn't be in a institution of marriage that is religious practice. On the grounds of separation of church and state. :x
 
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