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I'm super emotional this morning...

Primarily because my friend gave me good updates about her daughter who is going through cancer a SECOND time. I've told y'all before she calls me the little brother she never wanted and I call her the big sister I didn't know I needed. Her daughter is a fucking super intelligent person. I hope she beats cancer again. To have to fight so hard at such a young age, I can't imagine. What I do know is always so happy when I see her. She has her good days and bad days but I don't think I've hugged anyone harder than her. Cancer took my father from me and tried to take my mom from me.

Second, I talked with this lovely lady this early when she knows I am not a morning person. She still views me as just a friend but this ain't my first rodeo. Getting out of the friendzone isn't easy but doable. Either way, she is a good person and my friend regardless.
 
Morning Jososexi :teeth I’ll take it back if you hate it.
I’m also very emotional. I dread going back to my mother’s and step mother’s house. It’s like a trap. I know this is a mere blip in my life and I need to be grateful for this time, but it takes so much and I neglect my own life. The stubbornness is infuriating, the money is there for care but the decisions waffle day to day.
 
ThumperX said:
I can’t speak for you but I am exhausted dealing with other people’s expectations off me :rant
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Same. And here is the thing, I am honest to a fault. We used to be in a band together. And we ended up over time kicking out two band members. One was a drummer who was just horrible and refused to stay in time. The other two guys absolutely refused to play with him, but since we were all friends, I kept trying to work it out. I was the only one that told him the truth, while the two other fuckers hid behind my willingness todiscuss the issue. Dude ended up hating me for a few years because of it but still talked to the other two.

The second guy was a very close friend of mine. But he refused to do anything but constantly solo horribly. So as a group we decided to kick him out. Same thing. I was the only one willing to discuss it with him and why. Complete transparency. To this day, he still hates my guts but is facebook friends with he other two.

Neither of these were my idea. I just was the one person honest enough to tell them directly why. And it backfired.

Now this guy is accusing me of lying. Motherfucker, I wish I could lie.
 
Brokenlink said:
Same. And here is the thing, I am honest to a fault. We used to be in a band together. And we ended up over time kicking out two band members. One was a drummer who was just horrible and refused to stay in time. The other two guys absolutely refused to play with him, but since we were all friends, I kept trying to work it out. I was the only one that told him the truth, while the two other fuckers hid behind my willingness todiscuss the issue. Dude ended up hating me for a few years because of it but still talked to the other two.

The second guy was a very close friend of mine. But he refused to do anything but constantly solo horribly. So as a group we decided to kick him out. Same thing. I was the only one willing to discuss it with him and why. Complete transparency. To this day, he still hates my guts but is facebook friends with he other two.

Neither of these were my idea. I just was the one person honest enough to tell them directly why. And it backfired.

Now this guy is accusing me of lying. Motherfucker, I wish I could lie.
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I have a "friend" who acted similarly.

He has essentially isolated himself and is miserable for the most part.

I ride bicycles with him every week or so bug nothing beyond that.

He was my copilot on my 2020 Coronavirus tour to take my wife's TSX to Miami and I was officiant at his daughter's wedding two years ago.

Didn't matter, he still fucked up our relationship by lying about my wife and refusing to apologize to her face to face despite his daughters' "intervention."

It happens.

Let them stew in their misery.
 
goooood morning. it’s going to be sunny today. trey and i have plans to get a cheeseburger. i like having a housemate.

we got a new one recently and need to have a talk about it”please be quieter. please clean up after yourself better.” i can’t believe i need to have this talk with someone who’s 43 or 44 but… it’s happening or else he’s not going to be welcome here very long.

trey uses the main bathroom. it’s always spotless. my other friend moved in and all the sudden there’s pee on the bathroom floor. he shaved and didn’t wipe off the counter and basin. coffee dripped on the kitchen floor and not wiped.

trey likes things clean and organized and keeps them that way. i am not as tidy but follow his suit because it’s for my own benefit really. we’re going to have a household meeting tomorrow and go over expectations.
 
heard from a kung fu school brother, Asian tough guy, that his daughter saw Sailor Moon Super Live in LA I don't think he realized his daughter and I are both believers in the Moon Princess. He may have to process that.
 
two wheel tramp said:
it’s 1:05 and i am still in bed.
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understandable if it takes you more effort to get up..
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I have barely been out, myself. (just chores.)

but already made the 3rd coffee!!!

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put some gas, to the top, checked the oil level while i was at it. ;) ... :rofl IT WAS AT MIN OR BELOW... WHERE did that OIL GO!?? 🐶 🐶 ... and I thought I added a 1/2 qt...

gotta do the oil change tmro I suppose. (let's hope Those That Don't Appreciate I'm Their Taxi Driver, don't put a card in the spokes :x)
 
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