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Do nice girls finish last?

Do good girls finish last?


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A lot of good girls finish last by choice, too. They pick bad dudes who are equal losers.
 
good for you.

I agree on the "good girls finish first", too.. :)

I totally don't get the sense of the choices in the poll though, so I didn't vote.. BTW, why is there a similar thread? :))
What's not to get, you have three choices 1. Pretty girl but is rude to everyone 2.pretty girl and is sweet 3. Forget girls and read my daily scripture verse. Now vote! :p
And that thread is completely different! Lol

A lot of good girls finish last by choice, too. They pick bad dudes who are equal losers.
True enough, it goes both ways.

My experience has been...otherwise. :p
Lol i so did not expect the conversation to go that route when I posted this thread! :laughing Eldritch embarrassed me! Haha

I fixed it! Now you fix it! :laughing
 
My lady is good looking, cooks very well, and cleans willingly. And she isn't a total pain in the ass. Minor baggage. Totally worth it! Which is why I'm getting married to her.

I'd say good girls finish first. :)
So, you consider yourself a 'first prize' or does she finish first because somebody married her? :twofinger
 
who was it that said, "there are no good girls, just naughty girls that are waiting for permission."
 
so long as a nice girl is able to be pick, yes i said pick, as in their free choice - a nice man, then being nice will get them far. being bitchy might get them as far, or might get them booted. i've dated several women who started out mooostly nice, but got bitchier as the relationship went on - booted. EDIT: i'll add: just to clarify in case it wasnt clear: women choose who they want to start a relationship with; men choose how long that relationship lasts. obviously an over-generalization, but its been true with EVERY relationship i'd had experience with.

hate to say it, but that question is highly related to how attractive the girl is. the best girls are hawt, AND nice. the worst girls are ugly and bitchy. ever heard of the "bitch to attractiveness ratio"? prolly not, cuz i coined the term back in high school - but everyone who i've brought it up with knows exactly what i mean.

so if you are a girl, and you arnt getting what you want - i'd check the attractiveness file before i'd go worrying about modifying the nice or not file. plenty of VERY nice, single ladies out there - that arnt attractive. and so many of them seem to think that buying that pair of shoes or getting their nails done is going to bring them to that attractiveness level that they desire - fail.


asking if a girl needs to be nice is kinda like asking if a guy needs to have a 6 pack..... yeah, it helps but at the end of the day there are much larger factors involved when it comes to finding a mate. for females, its looks - for males, its money. been like that for thousands of years; i dont predict it will change anytime soon.


I will also add that *generally* the more money a female seems to get her hands on, the more bitchy she seems to get, hence negatively effecting her "bitch to attractiveness ratio", as attractiveness stays that same while bitchyness increases. nice, rich, attractive women - are very few and far between. I honestly cant even think of one right now, but then again I dont know many rich women.


and yes, i am talking out of my ass - but u all know its all true - so dont kill the messenger :thumbup
 
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I am never ever going to forget to type the stupid r in a word again! :laughing

Some of you are so cynical! I know of some very nice beautiful women who don't have a mean bone in their body.

And by bad = Mean - Selfish; unkind. Cruel, spiteful, or malicious. Stingy.

By nice = Pleasant, kind, agreeable, tactful, friendly

My darlings, today's scripture verse that I know you are ALL dying to read is:

you seem like a good kid. forgive me but i am the devil's advocate and i have it in my blood. howcome in all that biblical bullshit the word deceitfulness was not mentioned?
good and bad both do it. human psychology and pathology is fucked up. sorry if i bust your chops i just think religious people and their agendas need to open their minds and listen a little bit.
 
btw no fucken way nice girls do not finish last. not in my book. sorry it took so long for me to realise that. by nice girls i do not mean religious or virgin or whatever, i mean nice girls, pagan girls, women, women in every sense of the word. no fear of lightning here lol!!:twofinger
 
Kirstie Alley? Are you sure about that, or are you thinking 25 years ago?
 

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hate to say it, but that question is highly related to how attractive the girl is. the best girls are hawt, AND nice. the worst girls are ugly and bitchy. ever heard of the "bitch to attractiveness ratio"? prolly not, cuz i coined the term back in high school - but everyone who i've brought it up with knows exactly what i mean.

so if you are a girl, and you arnt getting what you want - i'd check the attractiveness file before i'd go worrying about modifying the nice or not file. plenty of VERY nice, single ladies out there - that arnt attractive. and so many of them seem to think that buying that pair of shoes or getting their nails done is going to bring them to that attractiveness level that they desire - fail.


asking if a girl needs to be nice is kinda like asking if a guy needs to have a 6 pack..... yeah, it helps but at the end of the day there are much larger factors involved when it comes to finding a mate. for females, its looks - for males, its money. been like that for thousands of years; i dont predict it will change anytime soon.

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