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Do nice girls finish last?

Do good girls finish last?

  • Yes, I like bad girls

    Votes: 14 25.0%

  • No, I take good girls home to meet mom

    Votes: 32 57.1%

  • Dar, who cares, just give me the daily scripture verse

    Votes: 10 17.9%
  • Total voters
    56
So some of you are saying if the girl is hot then it doesn't matter what her personality is? I would imagine that would get old quick.

Dan, do you want scriptures on deceit? I can give you hundreds of scriptures regarding being deceitful, not sure what you are asking for in your post. You do owe me quarters for my cursing jar though :p And I never once said that nice = christian, don't know where you got that :p My mind isnt the one that needs to be open, yours is :p

Check this scenario out, we have a new girl that started, gorgeous! Just beautiful lady. All the guys are drooling which is hilarious to watch. She is super sweet to guys but to girls she is standoffish and rude. So does she stand in the nice or the mean category? :laughing She is vegan.
 
Godsdarling said:
So some of you are saying if the girl is hot then it doesn't matter what her personality is? I would imagine that would get old quick.

Dan, do you want scriptures on deceit? I can give you hundreds of scriptures regarding being deceitful, not sure what you are asking for in your post. You do owe me quarters for my cursing jar though :p And I never once said that nice = christian, don't know where you got that :p My mind isnt the one that needs to be open, yours is :p

Check this scenario out, we have a new girl that started, gorgeous! Just beautiful lady. All the guys are drooling which is hilarious to watch. She is super sweet to guys but to girls she is standoffish and rude. So does she stand in the nice or the mean category? :laughing She is vegan.
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to paraphrase: "for every hawt gorgeous supermodel, there is a man whose tired of her sh*t."
 
Godsdarling said:
Check this scenario out, we have a new girl that started, gorgeous! Just beautiful lady. All the guys are drooling which is hilarious to watch. She is super sweet to guys but to girls she is standoffish and rude. So does she stand in the nice or the mean category? :laughing She is vegan.
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Probably just competitive against other women, or has some kind of chip on her shoulder.

Too little info to describe as "nice" or "mean"
 
Godsdarling said:
So some of you are saying if the girl is hot then it doesn't matter what her personality is? I would imagine that would get old quick. nope, we're just saying that the relationship would be very, um , temporary

Check this scenario out, we have a new girl that started, gorgeous! Just beautiful lady. All the guys are drooling which is hilarious to watch. She is super sweet to guys but to girls she is standoffish and rude. So does she stand in the nice or the mean category? :laughing She is vegan.
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agreed w/ Reli, sounds like she is competitive towards other women and likely thinks she is better than them. since the original question was "do nice girls finish last?" by finishing last it implys their status in a hetero relationship. and since she is nice to guys, then maybe she'd do OK; but likely not. if she thinks she is so much better than other women, then likely she doesnt have a level enough head to be in a healthy relationship where she is an equal with her man. I suspect she will/has trouble finding a guy who is 'good enough' for her. and that guy likely doesnt exist, is impossible to exist.

lots of hawt women are alone because they are holding out for some idealic perfect guy (lots of normal looking women are also single because of similiar unrealistic idealic standards). these hawt girls are often 9's or 10's but, they want a guy who is also a 9 or a 10, AND is rich... good luck w/ that :laughing most rich guys i know, guys who could easily snag such a hottle - marry women who are good looking, but just a tick above average. its VERY hard for even the most confident of guys to TRUST a 10/10 looking girl, and hence the rich guys tend to go w/ a girl who is around 8/10, and is smart and real and nice, and someone they can trust - not just a hottie 10/10 that they can fuck (whom will likely fuck them later!)

so with that said, nice girls often finish FIRST. :thumbup



...........oh yea, pics of said girl you work with - or BAN !!! :teeth
 
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Godsdarling said:
Check this scenario out, we have a new girl that started, gorgeous! Just beautiful lady. All the guys are drooling which is hilarious to watch. She is super sweet to guys but to girls she is standoffish and rude. So does she stand in the nice or the mean category? :laughing She is vegan.
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She'll be nice and super sweet to the guy.....as long as he never talks to another female, has no female friends or any contact with a female whatsoever.
 
^^^^^^^ lolz so true
my past girlfriends havent been the jealous type, so that didnt come to mind, but yea, so very true.


still waiting on those pics of said hottie :teeth :leghump
 
Godsdarling said:
What's not to get, you have three choices 1. Pretty girl but is rude to everyone 2.pretty girl and is sweet 3. Forget girls and read my daily scripture verse. Now vote! :p
And that thread is completely different! Lol
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heh, like I said, the original choices still don't make sense since you omitted some words which I see in your explanation right now. Or, of course I'm missing some euphemism for "girls finishing last"...
and the other thread is not completely different, Lol! It tells what are the questions that are bothering you right now.
 
No offense Dar, but one of my ex's, a very nice, pretty, slim, sweet girl, spoiled everything, by being extremely religious, and injecting her God into everything we did. And trying to force me to indoctrinate into her religion. Before all that, we had a great time together. And she was a nice, nice, girl. I'm sure she had these issues in subsequent relationships as well.
 
corndog67 said:
No offense Dar, but one of my ex's, a very nice, pretty, slim, sweet girl, spoiled everything, by being extremely religious, and injecting her God into everything we did. And trying to force me to indoctrinate into her religion. Before all that, we had a great time together. And she was a nice, nice, girl. I'm sure she had these issues in subsequent relationships as well.
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most of my ex's waited closer to 1.5 years before they started showing their true colors... i wish it woulda happened by 3 to 6 months; coulda salvaged a lotta time! :laughing
 
SpeedyCorky said:
most of my ex's waited closer to 1.5 years before they started showing their true colors... i wish it woulda happened by 3 to 6 months; coulda salvaged a lotta time! :laughing
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Ol' Gravy Leg said:
Haha, I had one wait 2 years. Women sure are patient in the deviousness.
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Hmmm.... I wonder if those ladies started out they way they finished up... :p

Dubbington said:
With me they finish first....again and again and again :cool
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:love :thumbup

Jakemate said:
There are no good girls. All girls just want to shit in your heart.
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:( Not all...


I try to always treat a guy with respect. Unfortunately, many of them aren't willing to do the same with me.
I'd rather be nice, finish last, and be able to live with myself than treat someone like shit.
 
Why is winning equated with having a man? :confused

Sure, guys are nice but not all there is to life.
 
being nice has nothing to do with it

just have to find someone who matches your personality and lifestyle
 
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