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Example why dating sucks and I spend $$ on myself

Dubbington said:
Is this real life??

2nd date was alright, think I mentioned she stayed the night. Gentleman never tells :cool

Not sure we mesh down the road but whatever, sent a message Friday for Saturday sushi dinner. Friday night I re-checked her facebook and it says she's MARRIED :wtf :wow

She messages me back 1pm (24hours later) saturday that Sushi dinner is great. By then I already planed my dad and was kind under the weather.

Messaged today bs'ing, saying hi and then mentioned I saw her FB said she was married. I then straight asked if she is married and what exactly she was looking for considering our date #2. Her response to my asking bout her married and what she's looking for "lets talk next time we get together"

what that what?!?!

Now I'm sure all you casa fucking novas here would say asking what she's looking for was lame BUT I don't see a serious relationship here and wanted to check. Want to make sure we're on the same page.
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Dude, if you can't get laid with a chick that is CHEATING on her husband, you got issues.
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Best to let this one go and find one without the baggage.
 
Gixxergirl1000 said:
Dubs, when anyone starts going with the "it's complicated" shit, RUN. I mean seriously... do NOT waste any more time/money on her.
Anyone with actual integrity handles their "complicated issues" before they start hunting for their replacement issue... :nchantr

You're a nice guy... go find a nice SINGLE girl! :)
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or a nice siamese twin. sorry, conjoined twin. don't want to offend anybody...just make sure her only attachment issues are literal.
 
Slightly different viewpoint here.

Could be she just posted that she's married to fend off unwanted attention.

Otherwise if you just want sex what the hell. She's big enough to make her own decisions. If you want a partner, run like hell.
 
Gixxergirl1000 said:
Dubs, when anyone starts going with the "it's complicated" shit, RUN. I mean seriously... do NOT waste any more time/money on her.
Anyone with actual integrity handles their "complicated issues" before they start hunting for their replacement issue... :nchantr

You're a nice guy... go find a nice SINGLE girl! :)
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Like this.

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As far as the married woman goes, and not sure if someone already posted this, but maybe she is in an open marriage?
 
asthmodeus said:
or a nice siamese twin. sorry, conjoined twin. don't want to offend anybody...just make sure her only attachment issues are literal.
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Har har har! Funny funny. :laughing

tzrider said:
For that matter, maybe her hubby is hoping for a threesome. :laughing
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Yakoo752 said:
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:wow :rofl

wazzuFreddo said:
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I wonder sometimes how much of the posting in here is more performance art than communication. :laughing
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Lol, that's a perfect description of what makes the KS magical.
 
Now as far as serious responses are concerned:

Dubbs, if she's married, then you know what the deal is. She's just looking for casual sex. So either oblige the woman or drop her entirely. If you decide to go the casual sex route, don't spend anymore money on her though man. Set up a time and place and go to town. Then go back to your respective lives.

If that's not your vibe, that's no problem either, but don't waste anymore time on this woman (I have no idea why you're even asking).

Maybe this is an interesting question for you guys:

It's considered a pretty shitty thing to be the "homewrecker", but what if the home is already wrecked? Should you feel responsible for contributing to the dysfunction of their marriage, or should you say, she wouldn't be here if it wasn't already fucked, so I might as well just roll with it?

I would stop flirting with a woman that says she married. I probably wouldn't even joke about it. So in other words, I will never initiate with a married woman. But if she comes after me? Well, that's a different story but I am still young and dumb.
 
Lester Green said:
nobody could be this pathetic in real life. I'm leaning towards shenanigans..
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Captain High Class to the rescue!!!!!!

"What's that lassie? Timmy fell down a well? Fuck him, he's a little douchebag. Sounds like his mom will have a couple free hours!!!!" :p
 
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LikeWaah said:
Now as far as serious responses are concerned:

Dubbs, if she's married, then you know what the deal is. She's just looking for casual sex. So either oblige the woman or drop her entirely. If you decide to go the casual sex route, don't spend anymore money on her though man. Set up a time and place and go to town. Then go back to your respective lives.

If that's not your vibe, that's no problem either, but don't waste anymore time on this woman (I have no idea why you're even asking).

Maybe this is an interesting question for you guys:

It's considered a pretty shitty thing to be the "homewrecker", but what if the home is already wrecked? Should you feel responsible for contributing to the dysfunction of their marriage, or should you say, she wouldn't be here if it wasn't already fucked, so I might as well just roll with it?

I would stop flirting with a woman that says she married. I probably wouldn't even joke about it. So in other words, I will never initiate with a married woman. But if she comes after me? Well, that's a different story but I am still young and dumb.
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Not worth the bad karma... or what if she's lying- who wants angry husband showing up at their work with a gun...

Hooli said:
No such thing. :laughing
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Ouch... :(
 
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