tzrider
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There's no primary actor in an accident. It's not a verb, it's a noun. Crash can be used both ways.
"I crashed" - forces you to own what happened.
"I was in an accident" - leaves entirely open who did what to whom.
So, no. No one is trying to redefine a word. The original argument is simply based on the notion that when I decide to only think in terms of "crashing", and doing whatever I can to avoid it, I remove the "shit happens" option from my thinking. Doesn't mean it won't happen - just means my mindset is not as victim, but as primary actor.
There is nothing implied about the legal or insurance side of this - totally irrelevant to the discussion.
The relevance of bringing up insurance is that when they are assigning fault to an accident, they certainly think someone owned it. There is nothing about the word that absolves someone of being responsible.
Since you evidently didn't read this, I'll say it more briefly: If you're satisfied with someone saying, "I crashed," you're being fooled. What matters in that sentence is what he would say afterwards:
"...because there was gravel in the corner."
"...because I didn't see the gravel in the corner."
Which of those statements shows the rider owned the crash?
The rider can very easily avoid taking responsibility in this case too. Regardless of which word we each like, the important point is that the rider finds what he or she could have done differently and owns that. "I crashed," doesn't quite prove that has occurred.

I was thinking about this old thread while riding home with a flat tire on Friday 