Most of my 60k+ miles are from commuting on the very freeways that Barfers are always complaining about being so dangerous. I agree that most drivers are dangerous jerks and that high mileage riders must be doing something right, I just don't think "visibility" is as visible or effective as people think.
I truly don't think people are as visible as they think they are...no matter what they try. And right there is what I think the issue is. "Ride like no one can see you" is the phrase that caught my attention as a noob. I don't think "yeah he sees my bright lights", I think "he can't see me and is probably going to change lanes into that gap. I better watch his wheels for movement and stay out of the way".
Maybe I'm wrong about the visibility thing, but there's no arguing that cagers can't hit what's not there to be hit.
Ride safe everyone