Pity sex with an ex -- is it worth it?

[masameet]

I'm contemplating it.

Fucker calls me up this morning and leaves a message.

"I'm back in the 'States! Just re-activated my old cell number. 415-xxx-xxxx. Call me."

Odd thing is these past few days I've been thinking about him.

[Sigh] I should just forget him.

 

[auntiebling]

if you want to relive the past,

all the past, not just the good parts

then sure

 

[uhmeebuh]

Well, if you can BOTH separate the sex from the past relationship, no problem. And the sex has to be worth it. Mediocre sex just ain't worth the trouble...

 

[Cyclesuzy]

Well, if you can BOTH separate the sex from the past relationship, no problem. And the sex has to be worth it. Mediocre sex just ain't worth the trouble...

True dat! But then again I've also heard that sex is like pizza ... even when it's bad it's good. Maybe it would depend on how long it's been since you hit it last.

 

[Johndicezx9]

If you do, could you give us a or on this stuff!

http://www.bayarearidersforum.com/forums/showthread.php?t=250934

 

[mike23w]

Fucker calls me up this morning and leaves a message.

Sounds like true love!

 

[masameet]

If you do, could you give us a or on this stuff!

http://www.bayarearidersforum.com/forums/showthread.php?t=250934

 

[masameet]

Sounds like true love!

Eh, I was in the bathroom. Learned long ago never to run from the bathroom to answer the phone.

Now the front door, when I'm expecting a package, is different.

 

[xgambit]

Now the front door, when I'm expecting a package, is different.

I can see it now...

DING DONG! Delivery man here with a big package for you!

*queue porn music*

 

[Ant]

What the hell, if you're single then ride'm like a turbo Busa redlining on a one lane goat trail

Oh, be sure to wear your gear.

 

[Gixxergirl1000]

So not worth it... you read the book, you know how it ended.
Find something new and tasty!!

 

[Gixxergirl1000]

What the hell, if you're single then ride'm like a turbo Busa redlining on a one lane goat trail

Oh, be sure to wear your gear.

 

[Hooli]

Have him PIITB.

 

[*Tina*]

I would say not worth it unless you guys ended things amicably and are willing to have it just as friends, nothing more, but still, once you cross that line youre leaving yourself open to bs.

 

[postcholo]

but it's totally worth it for him

 

[Lester Green]

one for teh ladies


IS

 

[Silence]

Even as a pervy Japanese guy that *should* be pouncing on every sexing opportunity, pity sex has never worked out for me. I alway feel dirty and bad for them afterwards. :|

 

[masameet]

... a big package for you!

Oh, yes. Please!

The sex was great. That's one thing I could count on him to deliver. He just wasn't much of a friend toward the end. Disappointed me, hurt me, and didn't seem to care.

 

[masameet]

I'm a fairly forgiving person. I know if we were together again, I wouldn't hold my angry feelings against him. I still love him after all.

I want to move on. Just haven't found the new guy yet.

 

[*Tina*]

I'm a fairly forgiving person. I know if we were together again, I wouldn't hold my angry feelings against him. I still love him after all.

I want to move on. Just haven't found the new guy yet.

Then this would not be a good thing for you. For him, he's probably just in it for the sex but it sounds like you have feelings that cant just be put aside for sex. I would say no to this and just find yourself a no strings friend until the next guy comes along.