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What happens when men prefer porn?

speaking of tanks… back in my defense days, a few of our merc’s got all liquored up, climbed into a tank and played demolition derby with huts in a local village for shits and grins. the ensuing conversation with our insurance provider was one of those ‘not in my wildest dreams’ calls.
 
The level of stupid those Mercs displayed is absolutely stunning.

Alcohol can cause people to make the most asinine decisions.
 
Porn rots your brain. It makes men objectify women.

Women, typically don’t have the sex drive of men at the same time men do. Men want to fuck like rabbits from about 16 to 30, then it starts to taper off. Women, seem like all they want to do in their 30’s is sit on dicks. The biological timing is off.

The older I get, the more that stuff becomes apparent. I didn’t realize it until I was in my 40’s. Granted, how I’ve phrased it might seem crass, but I don’t know how else to describe it. Traveling for work, seeing a lot of bars, meeting people from all over the world, showed me this. Over nights in various cities as a recently divorced 30 something male….and the “OMG, YER A PIE-LIT!” The 30somethings were all over it , and I was/am Joe Average. The 20somethings were honestly too dumb (not enough life experience) to know any better, and the 40somethings were usually turned off by it, they seemed to want their last dude, someone to grow old with. Now that I’m in my mid 40’s, it seems that our (male/female) clocks are closer to synch, but I’m so set in my ways, I can’t seem to find a woman who is independent enough to deal with everything I love to do that usually involves solitude, understands that my kids will always be first, and is willing to accept that I’ll be gone for half the month.

Yeah, porn rots your brain. Real life ain’t porn. Real women ain’t porn either, neither are real men.
 
I'm in my mid 40s and I'm just as horny as I was 20 years ago :laughing

Maybe you've got low T. You can receive gender affirming care for that. :p
 
Porn rots your brain. It makes men objectify women.

Women, typically don’t have the sex drive of men at the same time men do. Men want to fuck like rabbits from about 16 to 30, then it starts to taper off. Women, seem like all they want to do in their 30’s is sit on dicks. The biological timing is off.

The older I get, the more that stuff becomes apparent. I didn’t realize it until I was in my 40’s. Granted, how I’ve phrased it might seem crass, but I don’t know how else to describe it. Traveling for work, seeing a lot of bars, meeting people from all over the world, showed me this. Over nights in various cities as a recently divorced 30 something male….and the “OMG, YER A PIE-LIT!” The 30somethings were all over it , and I was/am Joe Average. The 20somethings were honestly too dumb (not enough life experience) to know any better, and the 40somethings were usually turned off by it, they seemed to want their last dude, someone to grow old with. Now that I’m in my mid 40’s, it seems that our (male/female) clocks are closer to synch, but I’m so set in my ways, I can’t seem to find a woman who is independent enough to deal with everything I love to do that usually involves solitude, understands that my kids will always be first, and is willing to accept that I’ll be gone for half the month.

Yeah, porn rots your brain. Real life ain’t porn. Real women ain’t porn either, neither are real men.
You don't speak for all men or all people.

If porn rots your brain and makes you objectify women, or anyone you know that acts this way, then that's a 'you' thing.

Watching porn has never made me objectify women. I love and respect women just as much as I did before I started watching porn and when I was a virgin.
 
You just spoke for me as well. I completely respect women but I do watch porn from time to time. Heck, I’m 73, my wife died and I still have a sex drive.
 
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You just spoke for me as well. I completely respect women but I do watch porn from time to time.
I never expect women to do anything that is super unrealistic in certain porn flicks or expect me to do unrealistic things. But I also realize what is unrealistic is completely dependent on the person... Sexuality is just as different person to person as any other part of who we are as individuals.

I don't really understand orgies. I only want one woman but I am not the kind of person that get off on orgies. People should do whatever the fuck they want as long as they're not cheating on their significant other or harming anyone.
 
Women don't have the sex drive of men?

Dude, you've been cheated in life or there's a chemical imbalance in your biology that women pick up on.

If anything, women are more intense and insistent than men about sex. Especially if they feel safe and protected in a situation.
 
Women don't have the sex drive of men?

Dude, you've been cheated in life or there's a chemical imbalance in your biology that women pick up on.

If anything, women are more intense and insistent than men about sex. Especially if they feel safe and protected in a situation.
I really don't understand what you're saying because my experience says otherwise.

Thinking you can just use a broad brush to make any beliefs about women is not... a good way to think.

All of us are very unique individuals, men and women. Preconceived notions about what you think you're getting into with any romantic encounter is not a good approach. I understand we are all a product of our environment/time/generation but we can also do better.

Maybe I'm not old enough to have the beliefs you have. But I do not believe that to be the case. I don't want to get to the point of thinking like you do.
 
Porn rots your brain. It makes men objectify women.

Women, typically don’t have the sex drive of men at the same time men do. Men want to fuck like rabbits from about 16 to 30, then it starts to taper off. Women, seem like all they want to do in their 30’s is sit on dicks. The biological timing is off.

The older I get, the more that stuff becomes apparent. I didn’t realize it until I was in my 40’s. Granted, how I’ve phrased it might seem crass, but I don’t know how else to describe it. Traveling for work, seeing a lot of bars, meeting people from all over the world, showed me this. Over nights in various cities as a recently divorced 30 something male….and the “OMG, YER A PIE-LIT!” The 30somethings were all over it , and I was/am Joe Average. The 20somethings were honestly too dumb (not enough life experience) to know any better, and the 40somethings were usually turned off by it, they seemed to want their last dude, someone to grow old with. Now that I’m in my mid 40’s, it seems that our (male/female) clocks are closer to synch, but I’m so set in my ways, I can’t seem to find a woman who is independent enough to deal with everything I love to do that usually involves solitude, understands that my kids will always be first, and is willing to accept that I’ll be gone for half the month.

Yeah, porn rots your brain. Real life ain’t porn. Real women ain’t porn either, neither are real men.

Yup, just like how folks can't watch John Wick without going around killing everyone who wrongs them, you can't watch porn without objectifying women as a result.

Porn may rot YOUR brain, but everyone else's mileage varies.

Try watching porn with one of your partners, and then trying to replicate the fun things they get up to. It might change your paradigm a bit.

+1 to Kuro's comment. I've loved many women in my life, and not a single one has said to me anything short of "thanks for being a feminist ally."
 
Porn rots your brain. It makes men objectify women.

Women, typically don’t have the sex drive of men at the same time men do. Men want to fuck like rabbits from about 16 to 30, then it starts to taper off. Women, seem like all they want to do in their 30’s is sit on dicks. The biological timing is off.

The older I get, the more that stuff becomes apparent. I didn’t realize it until I was in my 40’s. Granted, how I’ve phrased it might seem crass, but I don’t know how else to describe it. Traveling for work, seeing a lot of bars, meeting people from all over the world, showed me this. Over nights in various cities as a recently divorced 30 something male….and the “OMG, YER A PIE-LIT!” The 30somethings were all over it , and I was/am Joe Average. The 20somethings were honestly too dumb (not enough life experience) to know any better, and the 40somethings were usually turned off by it, they seemed to want their last dude, someone to grow old with. Now that I’m in my mid 40’s, it seems that our (male/female) clocks are closer to synch, but I’m so set in my ways, I can’t seem to find a woman who is independent enough to deal with everything I love to do that usually involves solitude, understands that my kids will always be first, and is willing to accept that I’ll be gone for half the month.

Yeah, porn rots your brain. Real life ain’t porn. Real women ain’t porn either, neither are real men.
I'm in my 60's and all it takes is a stiff breeze to get me going. But then, I'm heathy, I'm in a heathy relationship and I respect all women (perceived sluts or not.)
I've got a news flash for you guys with your generalized negative views of women and relationships...
YOU'RE THE FUCKING PROBLEM!!
THEY DON'T LIKE YOU!!
 
I'm in my 60's and all it takes is a stiff breeze to get me going. But then, I'm heathy, I'm in a heathy relationship and I respect all women (perceived sluts or not.)
I've got a news flash for you guys with your generalized negative views of women and relationships...
YOU'RE THE FUCKING PROBLEM!!
THEY DON'T LIKE YOU!!
Bingo.
 
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