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Why do chicks play games?

awgeezdawn said:
You know guys, there are other ways to get relationship and dating advice... if you ever want to get anywhere you should not rely on a riders forum :laughing



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Where else is he going to find other guy's with the same demographic's such as age, hobbies, income, and geographic area, and most importantly, knows the sting when a bitch of a women cast's him aside after first sucking the very lifeforce out of him? Well, sometime's that last part feels pretty good, but I digress. :laughing :laughing
 
:wow

you mean I shouldn't take the advice(s) on BARF how to get a woman seriously...??!!!
 
hooli, did you implement skankRang's "Four Elements"?
 
cardinal03 said:
women play games because they think: have vagina = get free dinner
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Men play the same games....think they can live with their "little man" thinking???? F*ck that!!! Society plays games...don't EVER say it is just women.

Have vagina=dinner???? what the hell kinda statement is that?

Have COCK= Appetizers..if the truth be known!! hahhahah

Sorry,,,,just a silly Canadian.......spouting off:):)
 
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m_asim said:
Welcome to the club. IF shit like this keeps on happening, I am gonna take my date to McDonalds :laughing
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Yep, set a LOW standard, and THEN start taking them to places like Chilis... that will be a huge surprise and brownie points.

You can't start off high, then you have no place to go but down.

Sorry hooli...
 
didIdoit said:

Have vagina=dinner???? what the hell kinda statement is that?
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I wouldn't take him too seriously... Just know that he doesn't speak for all men.

We all know women want more than dinner... they just need to click with the other person first. :twofinger
 
Hooli said:
Okay, so I met this girl a little over a week ago. Puerto Rican, cute smile, a native New Yorker who lives out here now. We shared some common interests (so it seemed), and there was definitely some rapport there. We met for coffee first, dinner the second date and made plans for a third meet.

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Now it seems that she's fallen off the radar completely...doesn't return voice messages or emails. :mad My question is, if most girls feel that there is no possible chemistry, why can't they just be upstanding and say so, so I won't waste my time? It's s**t like this that really pisses me off and makes me so damn cynical.
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But you know what? Her f'ing loss.

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NEXT!
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Because you still waste time by not going directly to NEXT!
 
girish said:
I wouldn't take him too seriously... Just know that he doesn't speak for all men.

We all know women want more than dinner...
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yep, they want dessert, wine, jewelry and cars too :teeth
 
Women don't want losers. That has nothing to do with how much money they make. It has to do with their issues, like anger, hostility, invalidating you to make themselves feel better because their self esteem is non-existent.

Mentally, spiritually and emotionally healthy women want men who are that too. We don't want guys who drink and smoke too much and the ones who hate their mothers, because guess what? If they hate their mothers, they secretly hate women and will try to pull you down to their level so they can feel better. It's like a drug for them and they will need to do that to you to get their "fix" regularly, if you show up and allow it.

These guys are like parasites and you don't feel good about yourself when you are around them. It doesn't take long to figure out when you are dating one of them. That's when I run for my life.....I'd rather be alone than be with a guy who is miserable with his life. :later
 
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From themenscenter.com....

"The only way to have a happy life is to develop one for yourself, then leave an opening for someone else to come and share it with you. Neither of these two things is easy. In particular, it's too easy once you've developed a life for yourself to end up with someone who was doing exactly what you were doing before—waiting for Prince Charming (or in your case Lady Love)—to come and rescue her life. People like this end up draining away all of that energy you've worked so hard to build up, leaving you exhausted and frustrated."

TOO RIGHT!!!

For anyone who hasn't seen "What the Bleep do we know Anyway", go see it. It's about Quantum Physics and the role it plays in our personal realities. What we think, we bring into our lives. We can create our lives to be anything we want. It'a about choices and changing the inside, that in turn changes our realities. I've watched it happen in my life and it is transformative and your life will evolve into something beyond your wildest dreams. Be open for a new experience!
 
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Re: From themenscenter.com....

Suekirider3 said:
"The only way to have a happy life is to develop one for yourself, then leave an opening for someone else to come and share it with you. Neither of these two things is easy. In particular, it's too easy once you've developed a life for yourself to end up with someone who was doing exactly what you were doing before—waiting for Prince Charming (or in your case Lady Love)—to come and rescue her life. People like this end up draining away all of that energy you've worked so hard to build up, leaving you exhausted and frustrated."

TOO RIGHT!!!
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x2 :thumbup
 
Hooli said:
Okay, so I met this girl a little over a week ago. Puerto Rican, cute smile, a native New Yorker who lives out here now. We shared some common interests (so it seemed), and there was definitely some rapport there. We met for coffee first, dinner the second date and made plans for a third meet.

[rant]

Now it seems that she's fallen off the radar completely...doesn't return voice messages or emails. :mad My question is, if most girls feel that there is no possible chemistry, why can't they just be upstanding and say so, so I won't waste my time? It's s**t like this that really pisses me off and makes me so damn cynical.
disgust.gif
But you know what? Her f'ing loss.

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NEXT!
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are you a man or a mouse?

We have had this talk before...

Nice guys finish last when it comes to women. How many times do you have to hear it before it sinks in. Forget about reason and accountability when it comes to them, they dont have any. When it comes to women, never ask why, because there is no why. They make absolutely no sense.:loco

When you meet a woman you have to excite her intrigue. It really does not matter how big of an ass you are. Just have fun with it.

Let me let you in on a little secret... be direct, then ignore them, but you have to be a man and look them in the eye like one. ( Lose the mouse.) They may act insulted at first, but if you capture their intrigue they will pursue you instead of you pursuing them.

Oh, and if you are ugly, you better work out. Women are just as shallow as men.:laughing
 
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Horse said:
are you a man or a mouse?

We have had this talk before...

Nice guys finish last when it comes to women. How many times do you have to hear it before it sinks in. Forget about reason and accountability when it comes to them, they dont have any. When it comes to women, never ask why, because there is no why. They make absolutely no sense.:loco

When you meet a woman you have to excite her intrigue. It really does not matter how big of an ass you are. Just have fun with it.

Let me let you in on a little secret... be direct, then ignore them, but you have to be a man and look them in the eye like one. ( Lose the mouse.) They may act insulted at first, but if you capture their intrigue they will pursue you instead of you pursuing them.


Oh, and if you are ugly, you better work out. Women are just as shallow as men.:laughing
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Enlightened and evolved women will never pursue a man who treats them poorly. NEVER!

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