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A Message From Bad Kitty...

how about divine retribution. make her a mod. salvation through service.

That is a creative idea, but she would probably be of better service in a different trench.

I know someone did just that. He's now on "vacation." Sure you want someone to honor that request?

Wow, that was a bold move on the part of the thread refering barfer.

I think that's hands down the best idea. :thumbup

Plus, how could you not like my interpretive dance. You just mock what you don't understand. :hand

Did anybody get pics of the interpertive dance? Post them in motophtos FTW!

There's nothing stopping people from hanging out and chatting with whoever they want, forum software is available to all: http://www.vbulletin.com/

I like how people are talking about "second" chances. The second chance was after the first suspension. The third chance was after the second suspension. You have to get suspended SIX FUCKING TIMES to get the boot. That means this would be, at minimum, the SEVENTH chance.

I have looked and looked and can't find more than 3 suspensions for both Nice Kitty and Bad Kitty combined. I am not a pro at searching but maybe someone else is. She is certain beyond all doubt that she hasn't had 6 suspensions, pm me the links if you can find more than 3 bc I am lost after those.

We ALL believe in second chances. Seventh chances? I'd rather dress up in a French maid outfit and have pineapples shoved up my ass.

If this would make the seventh chance, I'll wear a French Maid outfit to Ducati night.
 
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Oh yeah. Things were a bit odd/tense/weird/strained/awkward/unsettling/stupid around the old BARF homestead, back about then. I was shocked to hear that the Kitty had been put outside - permanently.

Kitty made me laugh. But, hey, you-za all-za knows how I can get loose, so maybe I would let too much go for too long.

Things were really uncomfortable if the administrators and regular mods thought they needed to put the cat out. I will have to defer to their judgment.

P.S.
Admins: (Pictures aren't working. Did you guys move pics to another server or something? I can't get a Barf link nor an managed attachment to showup. It recognizes the image and reference, but there is no visual.)
 
P.S.
Admins: (Pictures aren't working. Did you guys move pics to another server or something? I can't get a Barf link nor an managed attachment to showup. It recognizes the image and reference, but there is no visual.)
:confused What pics? :dunno PM me with details...

Is it Duc night yet? :teeth

(to see ALL of you - nothing's preventing anyone from joining meets...)

Yana:banana
 
C'mon ya'll! What's the juicy gossip here? Isn't that what the KS is all about? Got Gossip? What did Bad Kitty say? Who did she insult? Post some links?
 
Hey M.

You should step up and accept the fact that YOU not the mod's had the fuck with certain people issue not the Mod Core.. all we did was deal with the fall out.. and it was not fun.

I personally did not like Valgars picture either, but I understand.. a few have created 90% of the problems here and of course it will leave a negative feeling towards them.

I take full responsibility for my part in this, and this is why I wrote to you about this MONTHS ago.

But hey, we all better do as Valgar says, after all, he's doing tech support for free. And let's not ignore the fact that a few otherwise very cool and very influential mods have a vendetta against Kendra, too. And before you start voting on suspending me again for disrespecting the staff, I'm not...just calling for people to forgive, forget, and move on with life. :) :love
 
Hey Miran,
Have you actually accepted "full responsibility" if you are still of the belief that a few of the Mods have a vendetta against you? I have no opinion on whether they do or don't I just see it as a "i'm sorry but" caveat. I see no value in publicly debating a personal decision with Budman. I enjoy your presence on the board so my advice is to leave this thread alone.
 
No, I definitely accepted it. I just don't want to air that dirty laundry. I don't think I said anything wrong in this thread and hate to feel like I have to fear anything in my life, especially on Barf. But in the interest of group harmony, I'll leave this alone. Can't change the world all by myself :teeth Good luck to you, J&K :thumbup
 
Speaking as a retired mod, the mods don't have vendettas against anyone. They seldom agree on the time of day or the color of green. They generally have "vendettas" against people who waste their time or need lots of attention. As far as BK goes, as someone said, it takes a lot to get banned for life.

My own opinion? Posting an "apology" whose purpose is to get reinstated is not making amends, it is manipulation. Period. Amends is apology without strings.

As far as reinstatement? Ask again in a year. But making an apology and then campaigning for reinstatement is a bit self serving.
 
Speaking as a retired mod, the mods don't have vendettas against anyone. They seldom agree on the time of day or the color of green. They generally have "vendettas" against people who waste their time or need lots of attention. As far as BK goes, as someone said, it takes a lot to get banned for life.

My own opinion? Posting an "apology" whose purpose is to get reinstated is not making amends, it is manipulation. Period. Amends is apology without strings.

As far as reinstatement? Ask again in a year. But making an apology and then campaigning for reinstatement is a bit self serving.


I missed the part of the post where she asked for a reinstatement. She asked in the past by emails anfd Bud said you guys voted. Since she hadnt heard back and didn't know, she wanted to get the apology out whether or not she was reinstated. She didn't ask in the post, the decision was made already, just because the other people want it and mention it doesn't mean she wrote it there.

The apology was to apologize bc of reasons written, no more.
 
Banned??? From the KS(and all of BARF)???

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:hail
 
Banned??? From the KS(and all of BARF)???

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:hail

Huh. Now that's a switch. All they need are GSD's and the reversal would be complete! :laughing
 
I have looked and looked and can't find more than 3 suspensions for both Nice Kitty and Bad Kitty combined. I am not a pro at searching but maybe someone else is. She is certain beyond all doubt that she hasn't had 6 suspensions, pm me the links if you can find more than 3 bc I am lost after those.

You know what, I wasn't a moderator back then, and wasn't involved in banning BK. So let's say that she definitely only got three suspensions. Ok, so she had a second chance, a third chance and a fourth chance and still couldn't get her act together. I think only child molesters and crackheads have a higher recidivist rate.

Speaking as a retired mod, the mods don't have vendettas against anyone. They seldom agree on the time of day or the color of green. They generally have "vendettas" against people who waste their time or need lots of attention. As far as BK goes, as someone said, it takes a lot to get banned for life.

My own opinion? Posting an "apology" whose purpose is to get reinstated is not making amends, it is manipulation. Period. Amends is apology without strings.

As far as reinstatement? Ask again in a year. But making an apology and then campaigning for reinstatement is a bit self serving.

+1

The apology was to apologize bc of reasons written, no more.

The apology is because she's still an attention whore. If she wanted to apologize, she'd send an email/pm/call/talk in person to each of the people she offended/was obnoxious to.

If she wanted everyone to know she was "apologizing" and wanted to draw attention to herself she'd use another person's account to make a big public broohaha in the Kitchen Sink...
 
The apology is because she's still an attention whore. If she wanted to apologize, she'd send an email/pm/call/talk in person to each of the people she offended/was obnoxious to.

Except not everyone she annoyed was dumb enough to get involved. A public apology would be the appropriate remedy for the sheer quantity of shit disturbance.

But yea, it won't change many people's opinions...once a cartwheeler always a cartwheeler until there is overwhelming evidence to the contrary.
 
Except not everyone she annoyed was dumb enough to get involved. A public apology would be the appropriate remedy for the sheer quantity of shit disturbance.

But yea, it won't change many people's opinions...once a cartwheeler always a cartwheeler until there is overwhelming evidence to the contrary.


good points




Bring back Triple7 !!!!

eXtreme THIS: :twofinger


:laughing
 
You know what, I wasn't a moderator back then, and wasn't involved in banning BK. So let's say that she definitely only got three suspensions. Ok, so she had a second chance, a third chance and a fourth chance and still couldn't get her act together. I think only child molesters and crackheads have a higher recidivist rate.
For someone that wasn't involved much, you have a lot animosity...
The apology is because she's still an attention whore. If she wanted to apologize, she'd send an email/pm/call/talk in person to each of the people she offended/was obnoxious to.
She did. Maybe not everyone, but those that she did email were unresponsive, as stated in an earlier post.
If she wanted everyone to know she was "apologizing" and wanted to draw attention to herself she'd use another person's account to make a big public broohaha in the Kitchen Sink...
It's been kind of a calm discussion for the most part, but you are cranking it up a notch here, in the wrong direction. Similar to the allegations made about the mods earlier toward her.

You mods have access to things unavailable to the rest of us. That's just the way it needs to be...but how 'bout keeping it civil.
 
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