Well, perhaps, just perhaps mind you, you might try carrying on conversations without mentioning race, unless there is some REAL need. Real need means just that. WHY in the fuck would you mention a friend's race? From the sound I'd say he probably does not consider you one. Is there some point?
Parenthetically this is a candidate for one of the more fucked up trainwreck threads of the month. White folks telling black folks how they are supposed to act, think and talk about themselves is about FUCKING STUPID AS CAN BE.
Did I say that right? A six page thread composed mostly by white people telling black people how to live their lives is so fucking retarded, gay, obnoxious, insipid, meaningless, fucking retarded, wretchedly abusive, insulting, demeaning, potato headed, fuck brained , mentally deficient, herpes assed, ass munching, felch swilling fucking orangutan humping, cheese dicked moronic that I lack the words to truly express the infinite retardedness.
I have lowered my IQ ten points permanently by reading this entire wretched trainwreck.