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EA235 Yes, he's gone

I only knew him in passing, but the loss is felt greatly. Godspeed Eric
 
I only met Eric in passing at some Keigwin days but he seemed like a great person. I think we all understand stand your decision. I truly hope you are at peace. Godspeed Eric & may'be we all will meet up with you again.
 
I have been looking at that thread for the past day not knowing what to write.
Eric was one of the familiar faces I had grown used to see at keigwin's trackdays or in the AFM paddock.
Last year at Buttonwillow my girlfriend did her first trackday and it was Eric who found the words to calm her anxiety. I was grateful to him then and am grateful to him now for showing us how to stay true to yourself until the end.
 
Farewell Dear Eric

Dearest Eric,

First off, I love you. I hope you have found peace. Know that you saved one life just this week. Mine. I have had some difficult times recently, and I was in so much pain and despair on Monday, I was honestly looking for a way out. The only thing that kept me alive is knowing that there were other people, like you going through much more life challenges than I was facing. Seeing your face in my mind's eye and your lovely smile saying "don't give up" is all that has kept me going. Thank you for that parting gift.

I just found out about your passing a few hours ago. We as a community have lost an amazing treasure. Eric was one of the people who shaped who I currently am. When I was struggling to save money and get into massage school, he gave me some loving kicks in the ass. He said to me, "Denise, you are a healer. Do something with it!" Darling, I just wish I could have helped with your healing.

Please post any memorial info up. Farewell, sweet Prince.

P.S.

I wrote this several years ago, and these words often bring me comfort when I lose someone I love.


Conversation With a Red-tailed Hawk
by Denise Lindquist

I hear him crying, on winds from above.

Come join me my friend, tis sweet, tis like love.

I wish I could, my lord on high.

But you are the master, of the winds and the sky.

The time is not right, I have not the skill.

To unleash this poor body, from this lowly hill.

So I will watch you rise, spiraling to heaven.

Another time, another place, we will meet again.
 
The end of Eric's life is very sad for everyone in our little family of motorcycle enthusiasts. But it does really show the good in our community. Many didn't know Eric personally, but everyone chipped in to help. Everyone showed their support for him when he needed it. There were more fund raisers for him then anyone i've seen in his situation. His Keigwins track day brought me out of retirement to go, i had to borrow money and a bike to do it. But its something we all wanted to be a part of. We can all be proud of how we came together to help someone in need. Although he made this decision, he did it knowing there were so many people behind him, which is very special and definatly made his days less stressful knowing he was coved as far as funds go right now. Many lost a friend, but they also made many more coming together to help him

Rest in peace Eric. You will be missed

Ben
 
Eric, I didn't know you but the words of many speak of the greatness of you. I wish you the peace you sought.
 
Bravery beyond description. RIP:rip
 
I just spoke to a few racers that new Eric and he really affected people in such a positive way..

He was truly inspiring... This kind of stuff really bums me out.

I had not ever (OFFICIALLY) met Eric but had ridden with him and heard so many GREAT things about him.

I was really looking forward to meeting him as he seemed so positive in such a terrible situation.

I do not know the details of him taking his life but it does not matter as he is gone and will not come back.

Eric leaves alot of people behind (friends, family and future friends.) Sad very sad.

Eric I hope your instructing some people wherever your at... Godspeed #235

-Craig Mason
 
During lunch I asked a group of instructors for a two-up ride later that day. Most in the group just kept chewing, but Eric put his lunch down to take me out right away. He did it not out of guilt or obligation, but out of virtue. For him it may have been a forgettable gesture, but it meant a lot to me.
 
Rest in peace, Eric. My heart goes out to family and friends. I have vivid memories of you from two keigwins schools.

Bob
 
come celebrate Eric's life with us

Host: Arnold Family & Friends
Location: Centerbeam Headquarters
30 Rio Robles Drive
San Jose, CA 95134 US
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When: Saturday, October 24, 2:35PM Add to my Outlook Calendar
Please join us in celebrating the life of our dear friend Eric Arnold

Celebration
Service 2:35-3:30p.m.
Reception 3:30-5:30p.m.
We are expecting a large gathering,
so please arrive in plenty of time for a prompt start at 2:35.

Optional Attire
Eric would get a kick out of a sea of purple at his celebration.
As Eric would say, "Purple clothing optional."

Sharing of Memories
You are invited to speak at Eric's celebration. If you would like to say a few words, please come prepared.

If you would like to contribute to Eric's Memory Book, bring a card or note with a memory that was meaningful to you about Eric; something you learned because of Eric; or how you will honor his memory by changing something in yourself or in the world.

In lieu of flowers, send donations to...
American Federation of Motocyclists
Benevolent Fund
PO Box 4248
Modesto, CA 95352

Send cards to Eric's Mother
Helga Arnold
13864 La Jolla Plaza
Garden Grove, CA 92844
 
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:rose So long Eric. Your words of encouragement during my first AFM race weekend ment a lot to me. Thank you.


RIP friend, see you on the other side


PedroPat
AFM#758
 
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