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Example why dating sucks and I spend $$ on myself

mike23w said:
why be all angry about it?

just call her, say you enjoyed talking with her and it would have been nice to meet. you understand she prefers taller guys and agree that it's best you move on. she might get dumped enough times, lower her standards and boomerang back to you. :laughing
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This is sage advice...
You know what they say about burning bridges right?
 
HappyHighwayman said:
You know what, holy crap, I totally believe it, but also can't believe it. How can someone be so superficial that they cancel BEFORE THE FIRST DATE because you're ONLY 3" taller than them?

Is their time so valuable, so important, that the MUST MUST ensure that the height standard is well met before they'll even meet you??

I mean, unless I was told straight up that the girl is a troll or something, I'd probably find 60 minutes to spare for a initial meeting.
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Maybe she prefer climbing a tree, not hop over a bush? :dunno
 
HappyHighwayman said:
This has happened to me with my grandmother. In their mind they've literally found your future wife. In your mind they are crazy.

"Hey, I met this nice lady at the retirement home who says her granddaughter is perfect for you. Here is the granddaughter's number, please call her"

What does she look like? "I don't know"
How old is she? "I don't know"
What's she into "I don't know"
Is she in school or working? "I don't know"
..... "She's Jewish! Marry her!"

One final question: Does she live in San Francisco? "Oh no, she lives in Montreal...CALL HER"

:rofl
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:rofl

Something like that happened to a friend of mine recently. His parents hyped up this girl they know through their network, like she's all pretty, smart, well educated, etc, etc..

He says, great! How can I reach her? Does she live in SF?

They say, oh, she lives in Canada. :facepalm

Dubbs, that sucks that shit didn't pan out for you, but I have no idea why you asked about height. Totally unnecessary IMO, just wait and see, but whatever, you've already heard all that.

It'd echo jacksprat and Yakoo752 said. I've been trying to adopt the same mentality myself. If I think there might be a possibility, I'll give it a go. So far, nothing, but I've met some interesting people and talked to some girls I'd never imagine even going on a date with (due to differing interests, not because they're ugly).

One thing I don't get though dude (and if you don't want to answer this, it's all good, i'm not trying to put you on blast), maybe this is a BARF thing, but do you ever have dates that go well?

Like, do you only tell us the shitty stuff, but you're actually a regular casanova? Or do you really have this much difficulty with dating?

Lucky for me, I'm right at that magical 6'0" mark. Whew. Double whew cause I'm asian. :laughing
 
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Meter Man said:
6'0" and taller = Master Race

shorter than that = Manlet

Or so the lifting gorillas tell me.
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She's just not thrilled about being taller in heels

I'm 5'10, a 5'8 ex always made cute comments (not why we split)

TMI but if you're packing a redeeming package, that and your wallet is what really counts

also this

http://markmanson.net/fuck-yes
 
There is a 14" height differential between me and my wife. :laughing
 
It's not the height that matters.. it's the dick size. Shoulda told her you had a 10" schlong. That way you would have at least hit 2nd base :laughing
 
Johndicezx9 said:
:laughing

The tallest person in my high school was s girl, she was 6'7".
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I used to play intramural basketball in college with a girl that was 6'6". She was the center on the basketball team until she used up all her NCAA eligibility. After that, she just played intramural ball with the rest of us wannabe scrubs. We played in a 'reverse coed' league where baskets scored by men counted as two points and baskets scored by women were three points. We won that league every time. She would just post up in the paint, we would pass the ball to her, and just start running the other direction because she was just about guaranteed to make the shot.

She was in school there for a bit over 5 years. (People rarely graduated from my school in 4 years.) That entire time she never went out on a date. There was only one person in the school who was taller than she was, and he already had a girlfriend.
 
I'm 6' 0". Last girl I was dating was like an Amazon, 5'11" and proportionally build. Despite being taller I think she still pinned for a guy at least 6'2".
 
Reli said:
That jpeg is pretty stupid, considering the mean or average (forgot which) American is only about 5'10"

I've also never heard of very tall people being called "faggots". Whoever created that jpeg probably never gets out very much.
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It's a fun representation of the online bodybuilding community.

Why you take so serious?!?
 
wannabe said:
I used to play intramural basketball in college with a girl that was 6'6". She was the center on the basketball team until she used up all her NCAA eligibility. After that, she just played intramural ball with the rest of us wannabe scrubs. We played in a 'reverse coed' league where baskets scored by men counted as two points and baskets scored by women were three points. We won that league every time. She would just post up in the paint, we would pass the ball to her, and just start running the other direction because she was just about guaranteed to make the shot.

She was in school there for a bit over 5 years. (People rarely graduated from my school in 4 years.) That entire time she never went out on a date. There was only one person in the school who was taller than she was, and he already had a girlfriend.
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Some girls are more attractive for their height and others are gawky and ill proportioned. Or just "big".

Which was she?
 
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