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First time riding with a newbie and he went down

GotSick

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Hollister
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GSXR600
So after work on Sunday I wanted to go on a ride, it was a beautiful day outside. I am taking my usual route, South Side Rd to Highway 25 all the way out to Pinnacles National Monument. On my way out a newish looking Zx6r fly's by me. I am thinking this guy wants to play, so I speed up and stay with him on the straight all the way out but once it started getting twisty he was going to slow for me so I pass him and let him follow.

At Pinnacles I pull over we talk, exchange numbers all that good stuff and I offered to show him another road to ride. On our way back from Pinnacles, about 3 turns in he goes down.

I feel like he was trying to keep up with me instead of riding at his own pace. I offered to follow behind him but he said it was ok, so I went ahead and was in front.

His bike was ok, windscreen and mirrors were off, but his fram sliders saved his bike. Hopefully he will still be up for riding with me again guy was a cool dude.


Any tips on riding with someone learning??
 
Biggest thing I've learned is that when you are towing someone you have to give up on your desire to ride. You are towing/leading someone and need to do that instead of trying to enjoy yourself.
 
explain to them to not try and keep up
 
Biggest thing I've learned is that when you are towing someone you have to give up on your desire to ride. You are towing/leading someone and need to do that instead of trying to enjoy yourself.

Exactly why I ride alone.
 
Do you feel you are ready and feel qualified to be a mentor to this person?

The guy seems he needs alone time with his bike and to learn to ride his own ride IMHO.
 
Exactly why I ride alone.

Me too. Or with like minded riders of similar experience.

Motorcycles are all about being selfish to me. I'd rather pound my nuts flat with a meat tenderizer then tow newbs and ruin a good ride, although I appreciate and respect those that do, like Connie for example.

Even going slow as hell I had a dude behind blow a DY and tag an old man on a bicycle riding the other way. :laughing

Had a good friend who got a Street Triple and wanted to join me and a couple buddies doing a 3 day ride in the Sierra. I was going to ride my bud's KTM Adventure. I told my buddy "so and so will hang back and ride with you because he likes sweeping, is patient, and likes to cruise".

Dude was all hurt and says to me "you know, bro, it kinda hurts my feelings that you think I can't keep up with you on that giant dirt bike! I am going to show you what's up".

I was like: :wtf "Dude, I'll blow your doors off on anything, and the fact that you don't recognize that scares me and shows an utter lack of judgement and an real ego problem".

Unfortunately, prior to the ride he felt confident enough to get drunk and then ride home. Epic disaster. Dudes like 38 years old with two kids!!
 
Exactly why I ride alone.

I think that's why a lot of the rides I've done this year have been solo rides and I've limited my "group" rides to once a month. I enjoy having the group experience but I also enjoy riding, and when I'm leading a group, I can't ride...
 
Exactly why I ride alone.

+1 Riding with my wife gives me enough slow time on the bike, I don't really want to be concerned about anyone else when I ride. I will only ride in groups under particular circumstances.
 
First time riding with a newbie and he went down

Misleading thread title, I thought the thread would be along the lines of kissing a a first date.
 
Any tips on riding with someone learning??

Riders are always learning, regardless of experience. If not, then you don't want to ride with them.

I've stopped riding with beginners. They tend to crash. Very few new riders have their ego under control.
 
I absolutely don't have the riding skills to mentor this guy, I am 21 and I only have a year of riding experience and 3 months on a gixxer 600. I started on a 250 and then moved up, the first season of riding on the 250 really helped me.

Now I was riding slow on the straights and right before turns I would pick up speed, for him it was the opposite. He was riding to close to me and I usually don't break too much just engine break and he came in to the turn to hot, went off on the other side of road hit the dirt and SWOOP bike went out from under him.

He was ok, first thing he says " My Wife is going to be pissed!"

Lol
 
Biggest thing I've learned is that when you are towing someone you have to give up on your desire to ride. You are towing/leading someone and need to do that instead of trying to enjoy yourself.

at what point did it turn from 2 dudes that didn't previously know each other to someone "towing" another rider to show them the ropes?
fuck that. unless there is an explicit statement made to the effect of "I'll help you learn to ride" dude has zero obligation to a rider he's never met before.
ride your own ride means exactly that. and that is the world's default setting.
 
op, you crashed him. Noobs are clueless, but they gotta live with themselves and every noob will do just that, even if it crashes him. No such thing as 'towing' a noob. Have to babysit WAY back and tell them to ride inside the fear zone. Pro's and tract coaches can tow, but they're not really towing noobs, just towing young racers starting out.

Did you not want to show him what you can do? You did and you crashed him.

Not a noob story, but I was get fuel at livmo about to hit mines when two sport bike drove up and asked me if I wanted to go with them. Without thinking, I said yes. We take off and I started kicking myself. Because it occurred to me that they were gonna pull out cameras and stop all the time and then stop at junction to eat.

Sure enough, the did exactly that!

Unless you know the riders, don't ride with anyone, just like the guys above said.
 
So after work on Sunday I wanted to go on a ride, it was a beautiful day outside. I am taking my usual route, South Side Rd to Highway 25 all the way out to Pinnacles National Monument. On my way out a newish looking Zx6r fly's by me. I am thinking this guy wants to play, so I speed up and stay with him on the straight all the way out but once it started getting twisty he was going to slow for me so I pass him and let him follow.

At Pinnacles I pull over we talk, exchange numbers all that good stuff and I offered to show him another road to ride. On our way back from Pinnacles, about 3 turns in he goes down.

I feel like he was trying to keep up with me instead of riding at his own pace. I offered to follow behind him but he said it was ok, so I went ahead and was in front.

His bike was ok, windscreen and mirrors were off, but his fram sliders saved his bike. Hopefully he will still be up for riding with me again guy was a cool dude.


Any tips on riding with someone learning??

First and foremost, YOU need to be an EXPERIENCED rider... otherwise, it's the blind leading the blind, and someone is going to get hurt, or worse.
If you're the experienced rider, you lead... don't follow. And you are no longer riding YOUR ride, you are towing them... that means you may well be riding at a third or less of your regular pace. I tow a lot of Newbies, I enjoy it, haven't had one bin yet- but I'm watching them like a hawk in my rearviews. If you don't have the expertise to recognise when someone is setting up incorrectly for a corner at even slow speeds, then you have no business mentoring them.

Towing and mentoring a Newbie is something I take really, really seriously. I want to make sure they finish up their riding having learned some good foundational skills, and really wanting to continue riding. I do NOT want them feeling like they fell short... like they had to ride over their comfort level to keep up... like they're going to get killed by their wife/girlfriend/parent because they just tossed their bike down the road (not to mention I don't want to have to haul them home in my truck and explain to the wife/girlfriend/parent that I dropped the ball and didn't keep them safe).


I absolutely don't have the riding skills to mentor this guy, I am 21 and I only have a year of riding experience and 3 months on a gixxer 600. I started on a 250 and then moved up, the first season of riding on the 250 really helped me.

Now I was riding slow on the straights and right before turns I would pick up speed, for him it was the opposite. He was riding to close to me and I usually don't break too much just engine break and he came in to the turn to hot, went off on the other side of road hit the dirt and SWOOP bike went out from under him.

He was ok, first thing he says " My Wife is going to be pissed!"

Lol

You're right- with that little amount of experience, you shouldn't have been towing him.

And while there's no reason two less-experienced riders can't go out and enjoy a ride together, it needs to be clearly communicated that the more-experienced n00b is NOT "towing" the other... each rider is responsible for riding their own ride... and no one is going to try to keep up with anyone.
Generally, my suggestion to newer riders is that they ride solo, or with a very experienced (and patient) mentor, or in a newbie group ride, until they get a few thousand miles under their belts. At that point, I'd encourage them to do at least one track day- they'll learn more about cornering and body positioning in one day than they would in 6 months trying it on their own.

One last thing... when someone is following you, and they're less experienced than you, it's fine to use compression braking- but tap your brakes, so they see the flash of the brake lights. Good way to ensure you don't get ass-packed by someone who doesn't realize you're slowing.

Hopefully the guy's wife didn't actually kill him... :laughing
 
Yeah I wasn't trying to teach him to ride, I just offered to show him some roads. I was slowing down on the straights so he can keep up, but in the turns I was still trying to have fun on MY ride. I didn't go out there planning on meeting this guy, we just met up and he decided he would come along for the ride. I purposely slowed down on straights so he can keep up, if I kept a constant speed (the speed limit) through out that road after the first turn he wouldn't see me anymore.

Yes like some of you said though, some people don't know how to control their ego. When I first started riding I had a buddy that has a ton of more experience than me but I stayed behind as slow as I wanted because I already knew, EVEN if I tried to keep up I wouldn't be able to.
 
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op, you crashed him. Noobs are clueless, but they gotta live with themselves and every noob will do just that, even if it crashes him. No such thing as 'towing' a noob. Have to babysit WAY back and tell them to ride inside the fear zone. Pro's and tract coaches can tow, but they're not really towing noobs, just towing young racers starting out.

Good lord, where do you get this stuff?? YES, you actually CAN tow a Newbie, and very successfully! Trailing along behind them watching them screw up corner after corner, and calling it "babysitting"? That's awful.
And BTW- I've yet to have ANY of the Newbies I've worked with show ANY interest in RACING. They wanted to become better riders... and they did.

Telling someone to "ride inside the fear zone" is about as helpful as an additional hole in one's head. Fear-based decisions are rarely good decisions.
I would much rather take a Newbie out on a road that can be negotiated at slow speeds and still be fun, and teach them that riding is fun, when done well and responsibly. In a couple of hours, you would be amazed at the solid foundation an experienced mentor can provide a newbie.
 
Yeah I wasn't trying to teach him to ride, I just offered to show him some roads. I was slowing down on the straights so he can keep up, but in the turns I was still trying to have fun on MY ride. I didn't go out there planning on meeting this guy, we just met up and he decided he would come along for the ride. I purposely slowed down on straights so he can keep up, if I kept a constant speed (the speed limit) through out that road after the first turn he wouldn't see me anymore.

Yes like some of you said though, some people don't know how to control their ego. When I first started riding I had a buddy that has a ton of more experience than me but I stayed behind as slow as I wanted because I already knew, EVEN if I tried to keep up I wouldn't be able to.

You would have been better off maintaining your speed and getting ahead, then periodically pulling over to wait for him. That way, he doesn't get left behind, but he doesn't get sucked in as he did.
 
You would have been better off maintaining your speed and getting ahead, then periodically pulling over to wait for him. That way, he doesn't get left behind, but he doesn't get sucked in as he did.

That's exactly what i was looking for to say.. lol he got sucked in, but I didn't mean to do it. I was just riding with the guy you know.
 
Bullshit.

+1

RIDERS: YOU ARE RESPONSIBLE FOR YOUR OWN SAFETY.


That goes for: walking, wiping your ass, jerking off, driving a car, jumping out of a plane, whistling, eating, etc., etc.

You think people would be smart enough to not just follow along like a fucking lemming. Apparently some are not, and want other grown-ups to wipe their asses and change their poopy diapers for them.

Here's a bit of advice, own your own shit.


Good Lord. :wow
 
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