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Girlfriend wants a bike

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Gawernator said:
if only you knew :laughing:laughing:laughing:laughing:laughing I'm a crappy bf
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LOl could be worse and be me I would not do it, you want , you buy simple as that.

Been down this GF road too many times.

Like the DR said let her buy it.
 
splat said:
TBH, if she cannot see that this would be a horrible decision, she probably cannot see very far into the future.

My suggestion is to re-evaluate the relationship. Sounds like you're whipped, and she's a gold digger---not quite, maybe a silver digger. Who knows? Maybe it's meant to be.
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Clearly not too much of a gold digger since OP is posting about buying a shitty bike on BARF. Maybe a coal digger?

IMO, just buy brand new or lightly used late model bike, unless you enjoy fixing things and getting bitched at for why something is broken/not fixed. Buy once cry once!
 
cant say this enough

jpoppa said:
LOl could be worse and be me I would not do it, you want , you buy simple as that.

Been down this GF road too many times.

Like the DR said let her buy it.
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let her buy it.. she cant afford it she cant have it.
 
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splat said:
TBH, if she cannot see that this would be a horrible decision, she probably cannot see very far into the future.

My suggestion is to re-evaluate the relationship. Sounds like you're whipped, and she's a gold digger---not quite, maybe a silver digger. Who knows? Maybe it's meant to be.
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Guys we are talking about a a $250 ninja here...bronze digger is more appropriate :laughing

And i dont see any difference between buying a $500 bike as a gift and buying something like an Iphone for your girlfriend. Ya'll some cheap mofo's :laughing
 
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shall we say cardboard box? lets not be too mean..
hey if its 250.00 I say this do it but she insures it.
 
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U agree

cg_ops said:
Between here and FB... oddest relationship I've ever seen.
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I would agree with above and was wondering when someone was gonna say it. OP, you say you're not the best bf, then why should you care if this all goes sideways? I would seriously rethink this relationship and what you consider as a healthy relationship. Just my 2 cents and sorry if too blunt.
 
Lol yeah I'm pretty sure guys spend more on Christmas presents than I'm thinking for the bike
 
Since you relationship's maturity level (and perhaps your understanding of women and relationships in general) appears to be at a high school level, it may be best for you to avoid investing money into it by buying her a bike as it will probably just lead to hurt feelings and drama.

Maybe help her come up with a plan to save some money and buy a bike? You could contribute something to the fund as an xmas present.
 
There's tons of 250's and 300's that got salvaged because of "dents and scratches" that you can pick up cheap at the auctions. That's probably the cheapest way to get a decent bike as long as you or her don't care about banged up fairings and having to buy a mirror or two.
 
Mabrouk said:
There's tons of 250's and 300's that got salvaged because of "dents and scratches" that you can pick up cheap at the auctions. That's probably the cheapest way to get a decent bike as long as you or her don't care about banged up fairings and having to buy a mirror or two.
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Oh yeah? Please tell me how I can buy a motorcycle at a salvage auction as I still want to buy my Grom back. :twofinger
 
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