His chances of getting grief if he tries to walk up to a serious group of punks is high. At best he'll get a cold shoulder for being a shopping mall rebel.
Some of the immediate give aways from the pic you posted:
His hair is a temporary style. It's not shaved or cut in a way that's hard to cover up, and doesn't seem to have any permanent or unnatural coloring.
No piercings, tattoos or other mods.
The white tee shirt his friend is wearing is too white. His mom probably ironed it after washing.
Glasses from LensCrafters
The clothes look way too styled. If they weren't bought pre-made then they were probably put together on Mom's Rowenta/Brother auto do-dad super sewing machine.
I'd be willing to bet that at least one of them is wearing white tube socks too.
I'm totally in favor of people exploring their individuality, and it's great that your kid is trying to step out of the main stream. At the same time it's a great opportunity to teach him that there's more to Punk than Green Day, plaid, and boots.
Have him ditch the props, wear some comfortable clothes, and head down to 924 Gilman for a few shows. Take him to see Social D. at the Warfield in February. Then buy him an old ice cream truck on CL for his tour van.
/IMHO.


For me, I think one of the biggest lesson growing up in that subculture was the notion that the punk "look" was never really as important as the attitude and the search for individualism and seeking the unconventional.
I think at one point I think your kid should go, "oh fuck, I don't have to deal with this uniform to be who I am", then look back at his life and realized he had some chill-as-fuck parents that love him for who he is.
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Thanks.... but he like's Ducati, so I'm struggling with that one!

The real question is, how many times has he seen Repoman and Surburbia?
His chances of getting grief if he tries to walk up to a serious group of punks is high. At best he'll get a cold shoulder for being a shopping mall rebel.
Some of the immediate give aways from the pic you posted:
His hair is a temporary style. It's not shaved or cut in a way that's hard to cover up, and doesn't seem to have any permanent or unnatural coloring.
No piercings, tattoos or other mods.
The white tee shirt his friend is wearing is too white. His mom probably ironed it after washing.
Glasses from LensCrafters
The clothes look way too styled. If they weren't bought pre-made then they were probably put together on Mom's Rowenta/Brother auto do-dad super sewing machine.
I'd be willing to bet that at least one of them is wearing white tube socks too.
I'm totally in favor of people exploring their individuality, and it's great that your kid is trying to step out of the main stream. At the same time it's a great opportunity to teach him that there's more to Punk than Green Day, plaid, and boots.
Have him ditch the props, wear some comfortable clothes, and head down to 924 Gilman for a few shows. Take him to see Social D. at the Warfield in February. Then buy him an old ice cream truck on CL for his tour van.
/IMHO.
thanks for the heads up on the Social D show. That's a must see.![]()
They still put on a pretty good show, and the crowd is decent. They had a good pit going the last time I went, though it was smaller than I expected.
I checked prices for the upcoming show, and while the tickets themselves were reasonable, it looks like they're trying to charge more and more for the F'n 'convenience fee'. A $30 ticket with over $10 in fees? $9 so I can print it at home and they save the cost of printing and shipping?
This is why live venues are hurting. The price point has become critical mass, pulling down the attendance. Too many hands in the pie. Recycled bands aren't worth the overcharges in most cases, but if it's for my kid, I'll make an exception.I see "punk" kids running around all the time now. I've always wanted to know if they raided their parent's closets to get those "Dead Kennedy's" t-shirts?? I don't get it, is the youth of today totally uninterested in creating anything new? Are they really content with simply copying music and style from 30 years ago? Do anti-Reagan lyrics resonate with kids who were born after the Clinton administration?
For what it's worth, mohawks, leather jackets and studs was never what punk rock was really about. Make sure you show him the greatest punk band of all time (imho) they didn't have a need for any of that...
And in my HO...His chances of getting grief if he tries to walk up to a serious group of punks is high. At best he'll get a cold shoulder for being a shopping mall rebel.
Some of the immediate give aways from the pic you posted:
His hair is a temporary style. It's not shaved or cut in a way that's hard to cover up, and doesn't seem to have any permanent or unnatural coloring.
No piercings, tattoos or other mods.
The white tee shirt his friend is wearing is too white. His mom probably ironed it after washing.
Glasses from LensCrafters
The clothes look way too styled. If they weren't bought pre-made then they were probably put together on Mom's Rowenta/Brother auto do-dad super sewing machine.
I'd be willing to bet that at least one of them is wearing white tube socks too.
I'm totally in favor of people exploring their individuality, and it's great that your kid is trying to step out of the main stream. At the same time it's a great opportunity to teach him that there's more to Punk than Green Day, plaid, and boots.
Have him ditch the props, wear some comfortable clothes, and head down to 924 Gilman for a few shows. Take him to see Social D. at the Warfield in February. Then buy him an old ice cream truck on CL for his tour van.
/IMHO.

....And in my HO...
Punk ain't no religious cult
Punk means thinking for yourself
You ain't hardcore cos you spike your hair
When a jock still lives inside your head
It ain't how you look, it's how you feel and behave. Anyone hung up on mere looks is, well, you know...
(Says a superannuated punk from the 80s.)
I'd be far more worried if my kid was picketing abortion clinics at that age!
His chances of getting grief if he tries to walk up to a serious group of punks is high. At best he'll get a cold shoulder for being a shopping mall rebel.
Some of the immediate give aways from the pic you posted:
His hair is a temporary style. It's not shaved or cut in a way that's hard to cover up, and doesn't seem to have any permanent or unnatural coloring.
No piercings, tattoos or other mods.
The white tee shirt his friend is wearing is too white. His mom probably ironed it after washing.
Glasses from LensCrafters
The clothes look way too styled. If they weren't bought pre-made then they were probably put together on Mom's Rowenta/Brother auto do-dad super sewing machine.
I'd be willing to bet that at least one of them is wearing white tube socks too.
I'm totally in favor of people exploring their individuality, and it's great that your kid is trying to step out of the main stream. At the same time it's a great opportunity to teach him that there's more to Punk than Green Day, plaid, and boots.
Have him ditch the props, wear some comfortable clothes, and head down to 924 Gilman for a few shows. Take him to see Social D. at the Warfield in February. Then buy him an old ice cream truck on CL for his tour van.
/IMHO.
greenday never was a true punk band yet where did they get there real start? who bought the current sound equipment that 924 Gilman currently uses?
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