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Online Dating, whats your experience?

You guys have me actually considering going on EHarmony.... ? Mmm...nah..too busy!
 
duc996girl said:
I don't see the point in faking to be something i'm not... I'm not into roping in a man because I'm behaving the way he would WANT me to behave. Moreso, I'd hope he'd like me for the A-type person I already am....
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maybe you just need to find a guy that's not a desperate, clingy, nosy wuss :3
 
This is me and my girlfriend

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VTRZA said:
maybe you just need to find a guy that's not a desperate, clingy, nosy wuss :3
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Hahahhaa...you have been witness to most my dating escapades...YOU tell me what I'm doing wrong... LOLZ.... Besides giving the time of day to asshats...:rofl
 
duc996girl said:
You guys have me actually considering going on EHarmony.... ? Mmm...nah..too busy!
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better menz to be found at race tracks :) you already know they like bikes, they probably rode there and have helmet hair and sweaty leathers (if you like them like that, you'll love them when they clean up), you already have something to talk about

dating sites are weird. you say something every specific- like an age range or even something very simple like please don't send me pics of your junk and what do they do? every joker out there over/under the age range writes, every flake with a chip on his shoulder in a racial /ethnic group that doesn't attract you contacts you to say you just need to go out with him you bigot and that'll change your mind, every perv with a cell phone with pic ability is sending grainy below the belt shots. (we're not impressed). my husband admits to having used some of these sites in the past, and claiming he never even read that stuff- just looked at the picture and decided whether or not to send a message- that explains a lot! :laughing

there are typically a lot more guys than girls on those sites so withe ladies end up having to weed through all the crap to find the one decent sounding one in the whole crew. by that time, she's gonna be skeptical.

I'm gonna translate some of that ad speak for you guys to help you out.

"I'm happy going out or staying in"- this means she would like you to actually take her somewhere decent at some point in time, but doesn't want you to think she is high maintenance. she likes to have an excuse to pull a little black dress out of the closet- give her one. and the next time, suggest something more casual. surprise her by making HER dinner. it doesn't have to be gourmet or glamorous, the fact you made an effort will be endearing.

mentions she likes "witty guys"- this means she expects you to speak in complete sentences, not the one to two word replies so many men are known for. she will plan to talk about current events and things interesting to her, and wants more than a grunt and a nod in reply.

"someone who likes to have fun"- plan active dates, or ask her to suggest something she enjoys doing. she's tired of sitting home every night and looking at four walls. take her somewhere, anywhere. ordering pizza and and renting a movie is not what she wants.

"no games"- this is a pretty straight forward statement meaning that she is getting sick of lies, false people and general asshattery. she's been out there a while and been burned. if you're gonna play the field, feed her lines of bullshit and be, well, an asshat, stay away, bc sooner or later, this one is going to snap and it may be your car she keys.

"I love fast cars/bikes/boating/good wine/etc"- this one is going to cost you and you can't complain later bc she made it clear she's into the good life- and is looking for someone to provide it. decide up front if you want to be a walking ATM in exchange to have this lovely creature on your arm in public

there, you've got a start on interpreting dating site speak. good luck out there!
 
I've used match for a while and I haven't met anyone I wanted a serious relationship with but that's more me than them. Anyway, my experience has been plenty of poon mixed in with some really annoying first dates. Woman I've been seeing for a few months now I met on match. My 'research' also shows that redheads, fake or natural, are some of the biggest freaks on the planet. :teeth
 
ps// wtf is up with women and 'live, laugh, love' in their profiles? As if someone is going to say 'nah, all that shit sucks.'
 
weak_link said:
ps// wtf is up with women and 'live, laugh, love' in their profiles? As if someone is going to say 'nah, all that shit sucks.'
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:rofl And they think they are original with it too! I think it's from a movie or some book.

My profile is semi serious and semi a joke trying to show personality and not be a bore fest.

My Headline 'I have a blackbelt in Costco' :teeth
 
When I first moved to California I found flyer in my mail one day for a dating site in Walnut Creek. I figured what the hell I'll check it out. In I go and the dude that selling the sales pitch asks me a couple of dozen questions. Then askes if I was interested in single moms. I said I'm not interested, I wasn't there to get married. He then tell me the cost of access to their data base of women was $4000 or there abouts :wtf :later.

Then I tried craigslist and met a chick. We went out a few times and then she tells me she was being foreclose on and would soon be out of her condo :later.

I checked a few online site but screw filling out all that crap they ask. Anyhow it's a hell of a lot better to just go out and meet someone face to face. I've hooked up with girls at coffee shops at the dollar store at the book store at work (thats not a great idea but sometimes hormones win over brains). Finding someone in the real world seems less of a PITA. You immediatle know if your attracted to and what vibe you're getting.

Go old school.
 
Dubbington said:
:rofl And they think they are original with it too! I think it's from a movie or some book.

My profile is semi serious and semi a joke trying to show personality and not be a bore fest.

My Headline 'I have a blackbelt in Costco' :teeth
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:rofl Doesn't matter the age bracket, young, old, they love that line.
 
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