Nahullo said:
No, I do not see this as whites doing this for their people. I’m not sure what you mean… The idea that “white are doing this for their own” is based on the idea that they are doing it at the expense of minorities – not as some sot of benevolent gesture out of their own pockets.
So then you don't think that white people do more to get white people into college?? Or are you saying that they do it only to keep out minorities? I'm getting confused........
Nahullo said:
Ya have to try harder – the "wealthy black people" are into sports and entertainment and more concerned about the bling-bling? The Asians are all into the IT world? What makes you think Tiger Woods, Jay-Z, Shaq, Kobe, etc. have not given something to their community. And what community are we talking about? Kobe and Tiger come from middle class backgrounds – actually Kobe’s family had more money than typical middle class. Preconceived notions… [/B]
Ok, see, you're already takin what I said and trying to make it inflammatory. I might as well walk away from this discussion.
I brought up examples of immense wealth as just that EXAMPLES. These are examples I know of, because they are in the forefront of our eyes when we look at society?? Why am I wrong for that? Do asians have a large percentage in the tech industry??
Am I wrong, or am I just wrong for "saying it" Once again, you want to have discussion about race relations but you want to find fault in every word from a white man.
Did I say that they don't help?? NO. I said they could do a LOT MORE. Period. I'm offering suggestions to this problem that YOU and I said we don't know ho to fix.
And if you want to take my statement and say it's "pre-conceived notions", then I'll go back to my statement about the fact that you think all whites are middle-higher class, 2 parent, "wally and beaver type families".
Yes, Kobe and Tiger came from higher class backgrounds. But the fact is that you're saying we should do more to help minorities because they are all discriminated against and have no chance to succeed, but yet you need to remind me that Kobe and Tiger are not from that background.??
WTF??
Once again, a white guy tries to have decent dialogue concerning race relations and it turns into another "you're just a white guy, with preconceived notions, stereotypes, and discrimination."
Like I said, I'm walking away, head down, wondering WTF??
Blame us, open the dialogue, blame us more, call us racist and analyze every word spoken to try and find a hint of racism when we try to talk, pull those words out and blow them up twist them around, blame us more, and then wonder why people still have animosity towards other races.