On that note, I'm glad my mom has not tried to initiate any talks about him because she knows how that's going to go. Not well.
But as said before... why am I the one who has to solve a problem I didn't cause?
Do I like that my mom is conflicted with her two sons that do not get along at all? Not even a little bit. I didn't cause this problem. The problem is my brother is an asshole but he does hide it well until...
Am I going to entertain the idea of repairing almost 4 decades of not treating me like any family, a bully, a narcissist... etc? No.