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Post / Chat whores post here (2025)

so Chimay USED TO BE even in regular stores ...$9.99 for the big bottle. But I LIED. That used to be like... 12 or more years ago. Time passed in a blink. :( strong memory?
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heck I still recall being in a meetup in December 2010 with Thumper showing up and then CycleSuzy.


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so the lesson is, inflation. The same bottle is probably $17.99 at WF RN


belgian strongs are better-tasting than Almanac "bunny hill shmancy IPA haze white label whatever" fite me.

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sooooooooooooo why should we go to violin lessons when you can't do the song... and you will not start trying because you forgot how to do it1?!?!?

second week same game already.


and yeah she's got the cards.
 
Ah! I got a straight answer to my frustration about why I'm the one doing FUCKING EVERYTHING IN THE PAST TWO MONTHS, when my mother has two sons.

She told me she tried letting him help before I got here but he took over the project of what he thinks should be done in and out of the house and tried to throw things in the trash he didn't think were needed without asking. Who the fuck are you to decide what mom thinks is or isn't necessary?

Most of the mornings before I started sorting the garage, you know what I did? I always told mom, let's take an assessment or where we're at and make a daily game plan. Some days it might be very small tasks. Some days bigger tasks. And the some days we did not have daily assessments because she trusts me to do the work in the way she wants it done.

My brother basically being the narcissistic asshole that he is could not be trusted with this job. And that tracks... More reasons why he is no brother to me.

It also makes me laugh think of when I met his ex-girlfriend and knowing her for a bit, she said "Maybe I dated the wrong brother." :)
 
On that note, I'm glad my mom has not tried to initiate any talks about him because she knows how that's going to go. Not well.

But as said before... why am I the one who has to solve a problem I didn't cause?

Do I like that my mom is conflicted with her two sons that do not get along at all? Not even a little bit. I didn't cause this problem. The problem is my brother is an asshole but he does hide it well until...

Am I going to entertain the idea of repairing almost 4 decades of not treating me like any family, a bully, a narcissist... etc? No.
 
the Venus fan screaming out Venus . . .
I'm Jupiter fan but know how to contain my self
 
Kurosaki: I sure hope your mother isn’t a hoarder. My mother was a hoarder and was difficult to deal with. It wasn’t until she finally died that us kids could clean out her home.

In any case, good on you for the work you are doing for her.
 
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