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A Tinder Story...

Yes you are way too into her. I think she was definitely banging the dude that proposed and the proposal caught her off guard and then you getting too serious scared her also. The bruno mars coworker singing thing sounded terrifying. Id say that was the nail in the coffin.

You certainly should never contact her. just hope she contacts you and youll have to act somewhat disinterested. Its likely over but just wait and see.
 
I think that If she just wanted to to just fuck and be done with it she would have taken advantage the second time we hung out. So I don't think that was it.

Ya the song was a dumb choice looking back on it. At the time I thought it was hilarious! Haha

BARF and the obsessions with trannies LOL

EDIT: I have moved on, I just wanted to share the story. :thumbup
 
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TheRobSJ said:
I've been under the impression that tinder is by far the one most used for casual/hook up/DTF/whatever the kids call it today over all the other ones.
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Ya know, one of the most common things I hear from women on Tinder is "I heard guys on here just want hookups/DTF/etc, that's not what I'm looking for!". And I just sit here going "Huh. How bout that. You heard there was an app full of specifically what you didn't want, and you thought it sounded like the perfect place to join. Either you're batshit crazy, don't know what you want, or you're lying. Pick one."
 
NorCalAthlete said:
Ya know, one of the most common things I hear from women on Tinder is "I heard guys on here just want hookups/DTF/etc, that's not what I'm looking for!". And I just sit here going "Huh. How bout that. You heard there was an app full of specifically what you didn't want, and you thought it sounded like the perfect place to join. Either you're batshit crazy, don't know what you want, or you're lying. Pick one."
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Good one! :rofl
 
NorCalAthlete said:
Ya know, one of the most common things I hear from women on Tinder is "I heard guys on here just want hookups/DTF/etc, that's not what I'm looking for!". And I just sit here going "Huh. How bout that. You heard there was an app full of specifically what you didn't want, and you thought it sounded like the perfect place to join. Either you're batshit crazy, don't know what you want, or you're lying. Pick one."
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Yep. :laughing
 
Nice long write up dude. Very detailed and thought out. Ever think about writing books for a living?

Was she hawt? Pics?
 
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Paulo666 said:
Nice long write up dude. Very detailed and thought out. Ever think about writing books for a living?

Was she hawt? Pics?
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why?? he didn't put it in. whats the point of writing more about it.

i tried to read the whole thing, but after i didn't see the word "boobs" or "pusssy" i skipped to last page
 
NorCalAthlete said:
Ya know, one of the most common things I hear from women on Tinder is "I heard guys on here just want hookups/DTF/etc, that's not what I'm looking for!". And I just sit here going "Huh. How bout that. You heard there was an app full of specifically what you didn't want, and you thought it sounded like the perfect place to join. Either you're batshit crazy, don't know what you want, or you're lying. Pick one."
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The other two may or may not apply, but definitely lying.
 
I don't know shit, but one thing I know...... don't be surprised if she shows up at your house and fucks you brains out one of these days. I've had that happen. Total lack of interest, to see how you react, then she gives you some.
 
I removed the Tinder app from my phone after 3 weeks. The second chick to blow me off 2 days in a row blamed it on her "retarded, epileptic pug" who she had to take to the vet.
We now refer to her as RDG (retarded dog girl)
Fuck Tinder.
 
Awesome story, loved it. I figured it was something the co-workers said, maybe one of them appealed to her more. Or some other guy came around. It's always another guy. Women disappear whenever someone more exciting comes around. Even if he's less worthy. And once that other guy is in play, it's silence.
 
TheRobSJ said:
Psssh. Noob! My 9 year anniversary with the girl I met from Match is coming up this month. And I started on match like 12 years ago.

I probably ought to marry her or something pretty soon here.
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Hey Congrats. I hope it doesn't take me 3 years to find a really good woman...
Been at it 7 months....

SFSV650 said:
In my day we had to go to bars and get laughed at, or a drink thrown at us, if we wanted a date. :afm199
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:laughing

NorCalAthlete said:
Ya know, one of the most common things I hear from women on Tinder is "I heard guys on here just want hookups/DTF/etc, that's not what I'm looking for!". And I just sit here going "Huh. How bout that. You heard there was an app full of specifically what you didn't want, and you thought it sounded like the perfect place to join. Either you're batshit crazy, don't know what you want, or you're lying. Pick one."
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QFT!
 
NorCalAthlete said:
Ya know, one of the most common things I hear from women on Tinder is "I heard guys on here just want hookups/DTF/etc, that's not what I'm looking for!". And I just sit here going "Huh. How bout that. You heard there was an app full of specifically what you didn't want, and you thought it sounded like the perfect place to join. Either you're batshit crazy, don't know what you want, or you're lying. Pick one."
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Haha +1, so fucking true.
 
bunnygoat said:
I removed the Tinder app from my phone after 3 weeks. The second chick to blow me off 2 days in a row blamed it on her "retarded, epileptic pug" who she had to take to the vet.
We now refer to her as RDG (retarded dog girl)
Fuck Tinder.
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Online dating is interesting because it's so easy to "make a profile" especially with Tinder. I believe a lot of people go online a night they think either A.) I'm ready for a new relationship or B.) I could use some lovin.

The problem is, most are not actually wanting to put the effort in after that night, or their mind changes frequently. "I enjoy being single! Let's party!" and then it switches back to "I WANT LOVE!"

What happens is when the reality hits them in the face that someone actually wants to meet, their lack of actual determination in dating shows it's true colors. They don't meet up.
 
MikeL said:
Online dating is interesting because it's so easy to "make a profile" especially with Tinder. I believe a lot of people go online a night they think either A.) I'm ready for a new relationship or B.) I could use some lovin.

The problem is, most are not actually wanting to put the effort in after that night, or their mind changes frequently. "I enjoy being single! Let's party!" and then it switches back to "I WANT LOVE!"

What happens is when the reality hits them in the face that someone actually wants to meet, their lack of actual determination in dating shows it's true colors. They don't meet up.
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This sounds accurate. It shouldn't be that easy to exercise bad judgment but that's the Internet for ya. We are awash in very public bad decisions.
 
It's funny how I and everyone else i really know think of it as a hook up app but so many people I know have found their SO's on there. One is even probably gonna marry the girl. Granted she's a catch but it is a little surprising.
 
Bay Arean said:
This sounds accurate. It shouldn't be that easy to exercise bad judgment but that's the Internet for ya. We are awash in very public bad decisions.
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That and online dating is literally amazing for women and shitty for men. Moderately attractive women I wouldn't approach in a bar get inundated with messages. Boosted ego makes them feel like hot shit.

Men on the other hand, unless you're INCREDIBLY attractive and/or have a killer body don't get messaged nearly as much.

From the stories I have read and guys I've talked to who fall into that "Incredibly attractive, killer body" category, they get hit up for mindless sex as much as the women do.

I've seen the conversations, these guys can do no wrong and the women just eat up anything they say. The funny part is, most of those guys are actually looking for something or are super picky because they can be. It's hilarious how much shit they can give a woman and still get laid.

Good looks, male of female, is the key to success in life I swear. Fuck all that hard work bullshit.
 
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