HappyHighwayman
It's all in the reflexes
i have a simple feeling about those that don't understand.
if you don't want to go, don't. i don't want you there.
if you have an interest. you should come. very very very few have regretted it.
its hot. its dusty. its one of the best things to come together on this planet. you truly can not understand it until you've been.
its like having kids and being a parent. ppl say they get it, but as a parent you know your kidless friend has no idea. it may be a ton of work, and it might suck at times, but its the best thing to have happened to you.
I brought my friend for his first time this year. he says its the best thing he's done in his life besides marry his wife. (and he has a lot of accomplishments)
THis is not meant as an insult, but how much YOU or anyone "wants us there" is totally irrelevant to the decision making process
