ha I usually stay clear from gun arguments since I am not anti-gun or pro-gun per se, but I think you echo the thoughts that are often going through the back of my mind.
Guns are indeed a specific type of tool that, with training and practice, has a definite utility in a variety of circumstances. They are also, simply put, fun to talk about and fun to shoot.
That being said, the utility of carrying concealed full-time is, for most people, extremely low; the chance of actually needing that weapon for defense, and that chance that if that weapon were used it would end in a favorable outcome, are so ridiculously low that it would be hard for any reasonable person to make an argument that the tangible benefits outweigh the rather large drawback of having to carry a big piece of lead everywhere in your pocket.
If we adopted this same sort of passionate level of risk consciousness in all areas of life, we'd all be dumping 15% into our retirement accounts, learning CPR, and carrying medical kits in our cars; and probably reaping greater aggregate social benefit because of it than if we all carried firearms.
But we don't do these things, and thats because the argument for ccw on the basis of risk prevention is, for most people at least, only a thinly veiled facade that provides cover for their real feelings, which are much more id-like: to carry because deep down they have this Wyatt Earp fantasy of confronting a bad guy and, as a poster above so eloquently phrased it, "putting two in the chest and one in the head".
No one is going to blame you for your cute little super hero fantasies, we've all watched a lot of movies so its easy to see where that comes from, but to hide that perspective by cloaking it in language like "a polite society is an armed one" is to engage in social debate under mostly fraudulent pretense.
+1. Couldn't agree more. Except for the pro/anti-gun thingie at the top (I am very pro-gun

) this could be something I might have written.
I am an avid shooter, both pistols and rifles; I reload my own ammo, and I shoot as much as I can (unfortunately, this amount is far less than the amount I would
like to shoot

). That said, some of the self-defense/concealed-carry arguments, especially on the gun-related boards, oftentimes veer off into extreme paranoia and fantasy land. When you see threads talking about how many guns and where you have them stashed around your house, bug-out bags with armored vests and a thousand rounds of ammo, anything using the acronym SHTF or TEOTWAWKI, arguing over what weapons would be best if you had to walk to Utah after a collapse of government, these are the people that certainly
appear to be less worried about self-defense, and are more planning (and hoping) that "Red Dawn" becomes true.
I am not really worried if a law-abiding gun owner wants to get a permit and carry a concealed weapon -- have at it. But I agree with you -- the chances of ever actually needing a weapon are so slight that the inconvenience outweighs the utility, at least for me. Reasonable minds may disagree. I don't keep a loaded gun at home either -- I keep all of my guns safely locked up. Yeah, if a home invasion robbery occurs, I might be out of luck -- but give all of the facts of my own situation -- nice neighborhood, big dogs in the house, friends with kids over often -- it just make no sense
to me to keep a loaded firearm ready to go, the risks simply outweigh the vanishingly small chance that I will ever need it.
And I have "bug out bags" in my cars as well -- but none of them contain guns or ammo, just food, water, and some survival/first aid equipment.
Given the risks of an accident, the high level of legal liability (even if it is a "righteous" shoot), the hassle of carrying concealed, versus the very low probability of anyone actually
needing to draw their weapon, I definitely come down on the side of not wanting to carry a gun.
But again, I fully support the right to carry if you want; if CC permits were available, I am sure I would sign up, although I doubt I would ever carry.