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Example why dating sucks and I spend $$ on myself

Gixxergirl1000 said:
No. No I don't. Not only is he revolting, but he takes revolting to a whole new level... and then to make sure he's completely repellent to women, he makes them unnecessary? Soooo icky...
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Maybe he's just practicing. I believe Ron Jeremy has been quoted many times that his... biggest... talent is his tongue. :twofinger
 
Valgar said:
That is right where I stopped reading, and skipped to the last page. Yeah, I get it, you didn't actually say that to her, but that is a fucking horrible mindset you have to even consider that is OK.

Friends of mine on OK(stupid)Cupid have gotten rations of shit from guys when they turn them down. It makes no sense, they are great girls, and they turn a guy down and suddenly are 'sluts' 'whores' 'bitches' 'cunts'

WHAT THE FUCK GUYS?!?

Seriously, you got turned down, for height, for weight, for hair color, for dick size...there are billions of other people out there, why the hell do guys turn right to the slut/whore/etc route when they can't put their dick in something.

After that the thread was tl;dr so this probably has been hashed out already.
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:love

This typically comes from "nice guys" who have that undercurrent of resentment towards women and who get all butthurt because they think that if they schmooze up to you under the guise of friendship, you should sleep with them. Then they bitch about being friendzoned.
 
Nitewaif said:
:love

This typically comes from "nice guys" who have that undercurrent of resentment towards women and who get all butthurt because they think that if they schmooze up to you under the guise of friendship, you should sleep with them. Then they bitch about being friendzoned.
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This is a fairly damning reply to the OP :laughing given it was he that Valgar was replying to. I would believe it is however simply an immature response to his feeling insulted about being short rather than an expectation of sex that was not fulfilled?
 
Nitewaif said:
:love

This typically comes from "nice guys" who have that undercurrent of resentment towards women and who get all butthurt because they think that if they schmooze up to you under the guise of friendship, you should sleep with them. Then they bitch about being friendzoned.
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:shhh Don't give away my deepest darkest secrets Kelly! :x
 
New plan. We all pitch in and spring for this and send it to Dubbs....


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Nitewaif said:
:love

This typically comes from "nice guys" who have that undercurrent of resentment towards women and who get all butthurt because they think that if they schmooze up to you under the guise of friendship, you should sleep with them. Then they bitch about being friendzoned.
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Boom. Yes. "I treated her like a human being, and bitch wouldn't even let me put my dick in her!"

Positive attitude vs. butthurtness goes a long way.
 
You mean I'm not entitled to sex because I'm an awesome guy with a kickass motorcycle? :wtf










:twofinger
 
TheRobSJ said:
New plan. We all pitch in and spring for this and send it to Dubbs....


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Lol, see that's the problem guys. You aren't supposed to be DESTROYING her, you're supposed to be fucking her.
 
My900ss said:
This is a fairly damning reply to the OP :laughing given it was he that Valgar was replying to. I would believe it is however simply an immature response to his feeling insulted about being short rather than an expectation of sex that was not fulfilled?
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Seriously, you probably wouldn't believe how often women hear this sort of thing after rejecting guys in any way.

"You're beautiful, let's go get coffee."

"No thank you. I am on my way to meet friends, so I am in a bit of a hurry."

"You fucking cunt/whore/etc. You're an ugly bitch anyway."

Not picking on Dubbs, and the girl should have been more tactful, but women get this constantly. It gets old.
 
Nitewaif said:
Seriously, you probably wouldn't believe how often women hear this sort of thing after rejecting guys in any way.

"You're beautiful, let's go get coffee."

"No thank you. I am on my way to meet friends, so I am in a bit of a hurry."

"You fucking cunt/whore/etc. You're an ugly bitch anyway."

Not picking on Dubbs, and the girl should have been more tactful, but women get this constantly. It gets old.
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Guys wouldn't say stuff like that if girls would just put out easier, amiright
 
My900ss said:
This is a fairly damning reply to the OP :laughing given it was he that Valgar was replying to. I would believe it is however simply an immature response to his feeling insulted about being short rather than an expectation of sex that was not fulfilled?
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I assume he's self conscious about his height or else it wouldn't come up so often. The majority of teh barfs probably knows how tall Dubbs is, and other than that really tall girl, it's not typically common knowledge how tall a given barfer is.

Things are only an issue if you make them one.

Just be yourself and stop putting so many hurdles for people on everything-too, old, too short, too poor, too far away-good job of not getting to know someone who might've made you really happy.
 
MrIncredible said:
Just be yourself and stop putting so many hurdles for people on everything-too, old, too short, too poor, too far away-good job of not getting to know someone who might've made you really happy.
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Very much this.

I've been with my girl for, in a couple weeks it'll be 8 years now. Back when I was on the market, she was not really on my radar since she's older than me. But I said why not I could be missing out on something here. And it's the best decision I've made.
 
Nitewaif said:
Seriously, you probably wouldn't believe how often women hear this sort of thing after rejecting guys in any way.

"You're beautiful, let's go get coffee."

"No thank you. I am on my way to meet friends, so I am in a bit of a hurry."

"You fucking cunt/whore/etc. You're an ugly bitch anyway."

Not picking on Dubbs, and the girl should have been more tactful, but women get this constantly. It gets old.
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So, so, so, so, so, so TRUE!
 
Nitewaif said:
Seriously, you probably wouldn't believe how often women hear this sort of thing after rejecting guys in any way.

"You're beautiful, let's go get coffee."

"No thank you. I am on my way to meet friends, so I am in a bit of a hurry."

"You fucking cunt/whore/etc. You're an ugly bitch anyway."

Not picking on Dubbs, and the girl should have been more tactful, but women get this constantly. It gets old.
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Those assholes are ruining it for the rest of us.
I guess their behavior leads to behavior in women I am seeing of coming up with excuses, stop replying to texts, or avoiding answering a question if they want to meet up. It is very annoying. I rather just get a no, so I can move on instead of trying to guess what a hell is going on. At this point my rule is if a text is not replied to or question of meeting up gets avoided I delete the number and move on. I don't want to try to guess the motives, or play games I can just as happily go climb in PG or read a book in a coffee shop.

Although above rule did lead to interesting moments of getting texts later and trying to figure out who it is from. :laughing
 
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