srsly screwed up. and was that supposed to be apology?
thank whatever powers that be that when my husband- in a 'domestic incident' much like the one you described, decided in a drug induced haze I needed to be killed- that my dog was there to save my life. I was lucky. I had someone. she had fur, fangs and four feet but I had someone and so many women DO NOT, bc no one will stand up and say its wrong, much less get involved.
never address me publicly here or anywhere else. how dare you take such a serious problem and corrupt it for sick kicks?
I do understand where you're coming from and I agree some things are not a joking matter.
For what it's worth - only if you're willing to hear it - this speaks to his true desires that have not been met by his life. If you reflect on the concept that he has it in him, but has not done it - he lies in order to fullfill an aspect of his identity that exists, is present, but has not yet come to play.
For an ordinary thread like mine where I post "If someone did ___, I would ____" - he posts that it actually happened. A shrink could tell you what it's called, but it exists.
Fact of the matter is this - I am certain that if your hubby was beating you in front of Super - he'd get involved and help you out. I know this, I feel it as real as anything. Super - you know what I'm talking about.
His calling has not yet come. But someday, you may read the newspaper and hear of a heroic deed of his - because the heart is there, the willingness is there - the opportunity has just not yet come up.
Always a certain way to look at it. I'm not justifying his lies - which is ONE extreme - but I'm honing it down and away from the OTHER extreme.
But I do say this - some people want to be recognized for their thoughts. You could give me half credit for when I say I "would" do this or that, but he wanted full credit for having "done" it. It's not to say he "wouldn't".
I hope that makes sense.
