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What happens when men prefer porn?

What you consider shameful is someone else's most joyous experience. Don't shame sluts. Celebrate their freedom to be who they care to be.

Nobody's forcing you to be a slut, and nobody wants to hear your judgement or condemnation for their lifestyle choices.

It doesn't make you righteous to do it, it just makes you rude.

And I don't want to hear your judgement about my opinion/judgement of slutty women. I don't think they should be let off the hook so easy. They aren't good for society

And you appear to be quite holier-than-thou. Cool.
 
Women want looks, money, status, personality, and about 100 more things.

Men want fit, feminine, friendly, and faithful.
And I don't want to hear your judgement about my opinion/judgement of slutty women. I don't think they should be let off the hook so easy. They aren't good for society
Holy shit, it's not a business transaction. Women, or men for that matter, don't really know who they want until they find them. Get out there and change some minds. If you walk up to the plate expecting to strike out, you probably will. Although a bitter opinion of all women probably won't help your cause. Treat a lady right and you might be surprised who she ends up really wanting to be with. Or sit around complaining with a bunch of other bitter, single guys.
 
there’s nothing wrong with rubbing one out. more folks should do it more often. post nut clarity is a good thing. maybe if OP had rubbed one out before posting this thread he wouldn’t have regrets. :laughing
If it's too often that's no good, and porn is worse than drugs.

I don't know if women are the same, but most men would benefit from releasing only once or twice a month, if that. Porn and masturbation is a big reason why men are so feminine these days.
 
You sound like you're a little tense. :laughing
You'd be amazed how it can increase aggression/energy/confidence/etc. You know, masculine traits (toxic according to feminists/simps). :D Too bad most men aren't getting these benefits, but awareness is increasing.
 
I don't know if women are the same, but most men would benefit from releasing only once or twice a month, if that.
    • A study published in the Journal of the National Cancer Institute found that men who ejaculated more than 21 times per month had a lower risk of developing prostate cancer compared to those who ejaculated less frequently.
 
Women are more visual/superficial than men. If she didn't marry a 9//10 plus, she's probably gonna cheat. And women are better at hiding their cheating.

Women want looks, money, status, personality, and about 100 more things.

Men want fit, feminine, friendly, and faithful.

We see things differently. Probably from different experiences and maybe ages. Many guys don't know when their girl has truly cheated on them. They pick up the wrong signs. None the less, I'm gonna put my $1K bet on: women cheat because their guys makes them feel insecure/ valueless. Call your girl a "siut" and that'll likely free her up to do what she wants with whom she wants.

Go lookup "mystery lay guide". Layguide book This stuff was out around the turn of the millennium and big in the online PUA forums/ boards. Some of it was total shit and other was decent, but really based on the confidence indexes, uniqueness, etc. Some clever ideas, but the whole one size fits all approach was ridiculous. What mattered the most in success was confidence and careless attitudes to success. Mind you, some of these guys had the looks and cars and some didn't. It didn't matter much. Personality was the final determining factor in the end. Turns out, most of the true pimps had little money and ended up in family hell with a shit marriage once the married their "10".

Any girl (or guy) that demands a 9/10 is gonna wanna slit their throat in a decade of marriage...

You'd be amazed how it can increase aggression/energy/confidence/etc. You know, masculine traits (toxic according to feminists/simps). :D Too bad most men aren't getting these benefits, but awareness is increasing.

He's doing just fine in the partner world. Receipts verified.
 
there’s nothing wrong with rubbing one out. more folks should do it more often. post nut clarity is a good thing. maybe if OP had rubbed one out before posting this thread he wouldn’t have regrets. :laughing
This is why I get one off before going on first dates. So I don't say disingenuous shit I don't really mean in the name of getting laid. Not that I expect anything on a first date . I mean more just saying disingenuous shit to try to line up a 2nd date and a 3rd and a 4th.

Like I said before, amount of masturbation has never affected my sex drive. I know it's not that way for everyone and there's a reason why there's case studies about it.
 
Women are more visual/superficial than men. If she didn't marry a 9//10 plus, she's probably gonna cheat. And women are better at hiding their cheating.

Women want looks, money, status, personality, and about 100 more things.

Men want fit, feminine, friendly, and faithful.
Making huge broad brush statements about what women or men want is not a good thought process. It's no different than making broad statements about race or literally any demographic of humanity.

One of my exes started dating me when I was unemployed and at the time didn't really have any good prospects to make the argument that things are gonna turn around soon. It did and I got back to work about 3 months into the relationship but no one could have predicted that future.
 
Don't like the direction some posts in this thread has taken, there is a good reason for the rise of incels and it's not the women.
 
Nope. I just try to be a nice guy. Especially to women... regardless of their perceived past.
I also try to be a nice guy. To most people. Not sure why you’d try to be nicer to women than men. You should try holding women accountable.
 
Not sure why you’d try to be nicer to women than men.
Guilty as charged. I definitely like women better than men... never been much of a "bro" guy. To each their own. Good luck on your quest for a stepford wife.
 
    • A study published in the Journal of the National Cancer Institute found that men who ejaculated more than 21 times per month had a lower risk of developing prostate cancer compared to those who ejaculated less frequently.
Say, I'll be right back in a few minutes..........:leghump:leghump
 
Don't like the direction some posts in this thread has taken, there is a good reason for the rise of incels and it's not the women.
The rise of incels has never been about women. Also, I don't think there's a rise of incels. It's just guys have multiple platforms to spread their bad opinions compared to decades ago. Especially considering they have much easier access to being convinced from other guys who already think that way. All it takes is one or two rejections, no matter how respectful the women was in the rejection, and finding some internet platform to add on and 'confirm' them not processing rejection in a healthy way and why that is. I think it's undeniable that there is more incels then there used to be but if guys had the same information exchange technology we have today 20-30 years ago, I'd but the numbers then and now would not have a huge gap between them.
 
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Guilty as charged. I definitely like women better than men... never been much of a "bro" guy. To each their own. Good luck on your quest for a stepford wife.

You sound bi-sexual. Like women better?

I like women too but I treat them like any other person. I don’t know what a bro guy is…

I’m on no quest, I have a very sweet girlfriend that wants to marry me.
 
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