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A Tinder Story...

MrIncredible said:
I'm not-internet is chock full of beautiful women if I felt like it.

But that may be what she's thinking.

G'wan and explain to her that you feel a relationship should be a two-way street, much like her butt.
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I think she knows that I like her. I've made that clear, without actually saying it to her.

I do like how everyone gets hung up on the fact that we haven't had sex. I think thats because you all put that as a bigger priority, which is fine. I agree with Ducky_Fresh, its not a big deal to not have sex right away, especially if your are both comfortable. The longest and one of the best relationships I've ever had, we waited until the 5th time we saw each other to have sex. Its all relative and it varies from relationship to relationship.

Lets just hold out on judgement and wait until I fuck this one up to talk shit :p
 
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The unspoken truth here is that it's not the guy who seals the deal. It's always the woman who decides when and if they will have sex. :laughing
 
rjbrittain11 said:
I think she knows that I like her. I've made that clear, without actually saying it to her.

I do like how everyone gets hung up on the fact that we haven't had sex. I think thats because you all put that as a bigger priority, which is fine. I agree with Ducky_Fresh, its not a big deal to not have sex right away, especially if your are both comfortable. The longest and one of the best relationships I've ever had, we waited until the 5th time we saw each other to have sex. Its all relative and it varies from relationship to relationship.

Lets just hold out on judgement and wait until I fuck this one up to talk shit :p
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Not hung up on it-it's a prominent part of your post relating your weekend.
 
rjbrittain11 said:
Lets just hold out on judgement and wait until I fuck this one up to talk shit :p
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Nah.. you're good, dude. You're doing the right thing.

Not always about the sex. Don't get me wrong, it's awesome but it ain't everything. Good Luck and Good reading.
 
JMack said:
Nah.. you're good, dude. You're doing the right thing.

Not always about the sex. Don't get me wrong, it's awesome but it ain't everything. Good Luck and Good reading.
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Wait...are you saying life is not about butthole pleasures?
 
JMack said:
Nah.. you're good, dude. You're doing the right thing.

Not always about the sex. Don't get me wrong, it's awesome but it ain't everything. Good Luck and Good reading.
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+1000. Rob, you know the deal. It's not always about getting laid as fast as you can. We can do that anytime we need/ want...or within a day or so if it's that important. It's about building the thing. Most times with this type of girl, you need to do the things other guys are not doing. That means, watch the Sex talk early on and use your Kino skills as a way to hold her at bay, while showing her you care about HER, not just fucking her. That means hand/ foot massages, and the like, keeping the snuggling to a fair minimum. You know the reasons for that too.

I like the "go out with friends" approach too and vary those groups so she realizes, you're a BIG deal among several different groups. Very few guys will have done this with her as well. Once she's locked in, she's locked in..and that means liking your friends and your friends liking her. But careful with your friends GF's. They can fuck it up in one simple text...and make the rest of the night a living hell!
 
Holeshot said:
They can fuck it up in one simple text...and make the rest of the night a living hell!
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HOLY FUCK I JUST CHOKED ON MY FOOD :rofl

You are spot on Berto. I have been told by her sister before this whole thing went down about her past. So its fair to say that me "Taking it slow" is the best scenario.
 
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Keep snuggling to a minimum? No. You're simply gonna have another guy fill that spot. Should be some passion and at least some kissing going on by second date or you're not getting it.
 
damn I just read your essay lol...I tried Tinder when it first came out and it had so many bots. My friend who still uses it says its a lot better now. Hopefully, you find another one that seems cool and doesn't play with your emotions.
 
rodr said:
Yeah, every case is different. Trust your instincts. Good luck. :thumbup
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I agree.
rodr said:
The unspoken truth here is that it's not the guy who seals the deal. It's always the woman who decides when and if they will have sex. :laughing
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QFT, provided you are a Gentleman.

JMack said:
Nah.. you're good, dude. You're doing the right thing.

Not always about the sex. Don't get me wrong, it's awesome but it ain't everything. Good Luck and Good reading.
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:thumbup
 
I love tinder... Every time I'm horny there is a new chick to have sex with.. Benefits of being young
 
rodr said:
The unspoken truth here is that it's not the guy who seals the deal. It's always the woman who decides when and if they will have sex. :laughing
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Right? I mean, if I ask, "does this rag smell like chloroform to you," and she tries it, that is pretty much her choice to seal the deal. If she didn't want that, she never would have been walking near my van, down by the river. Am I right or amiright?
 
this gets me wondering what Sailor Moon and Tuxedo Mask's tinder story would be like.

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Eldritch said:
Right? I mean, if I ask, "does this rag smell like chloroform to you," and she tries it, that is pretty much her choice to seal the deal. If she didn't want that, she never would have been walking near my van, down by the river. Am I right or amiright?
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In before misogyny finger pointing.
 
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