A Tinder Story...

[TheRobSJ]

ABC.....Always. Be. Closing.

Quoted for truth. And for over level 9000 irony.

 

[rjbrittain11]

Sooooo....

I saw 'JW' last night. Took her up to Twin Peaks in SF, as she had never been there before. Also went by the Full House house, shes like that stuff, as do I.

We have plans to see each other again Saturday on Valentines Day. I'm going to take her into the city again for some fun Haight/Ashbury stuff, along with a couple of other events in the city. Going to be nice weather to be walking around. Then after that stuff, we are going to Umigo to go race some Go-Karts.

Rubbin' is Racin'!

When she left, I deleted my Tinder app from my phone...

 

[rodr]

Just goes to show, having a network of friends works a lot better than trying to find love on the internet.

 

[Eldritch]

It's not misogynistic. The person could in fact be male but self identifies as female, thus Eldritch would say "her" despite it being male on male rape, which we all know is not traumatizing like female rape, butt funny instead.

Your gender assumptive attitude is sickening.

You, sir, are the hero of the day.

 

[RightCoastBias]

I like to get the sex out of the way, personally. If I still can stand the person after getting the proverbial carrot on a stick, that's a good thing.

I've done the waiting game, several dates and they we hook up. As soon as it happens I realize how much the person annoys me and how I've been putting up with annoying shit just because I want to sleep with them.

 

[TripleSeven]

I like to get the sex out of the way, personally. If I still can stand the person after getting the proverbial carrot on a stick, that's a good thing.

I've done the waiting game, several dates and they we hook up. As soon as it happens I realize how much the person annoys me and how I've been putting up with annoying shit just because I want to sleep with them.

This

 

[rjbrittain11]

I like to get the sex out of the way, personally. If I still can stand the person after getting the proverbial carrot on a stick, that's a good thing.

I've done the waiting game, several dates and they we hook up. As soon as it happens I realize how much the person annoys me and how I've been putting up with annoying shit just because I want to sleep with them.

Well that happened to us all. But that is not the case with everyone. One of my best relationships we waited until the 5th date to have sex. We dated for more than 5 years, are still friends 5 years later, and will probably be a friend for the rest of our lives. The attraction to each other is gone, but we are very, very good friends. And I wouldn't have it any other way. People say you can't be friends with ex's, blah, blah....but this is a case of me being a friend with an ex that will most likely last a lifetime.

 

[Dubbington]

I like to get the sex out of the way, personally. If I still can stand the person after getting the proverbial carrot on a stick, that's a good thing.

I've done the waiting game, several dates and they we hook up. As soon as it happens I realize how much the person annoys me and how I've been putting up with annoying shit just because I want to sleep with them.

This

Lord Sounds like you just didnt like the person and were looking to get laid, not for a relationship.

Very few relationships develop if you get down the first time meeting. Of course BARF will dispel this in 3....2....1. But something in a mans and womans mind change if you have sex on the 1st date, the person gets classified in the 'no relationship' category.

That said, I met a girl on match who happened to be a semester abroad. We really connected phone and email wise and the first time we met it was on BUT we connected before the physical happened.

 

[RightCoastBias]

Lord Sounds like you just didnt like the person and were looking to get laid, not for a relationship.

Eh, I don't see why that would be such a big deal and worthy of a "facepalm".

If I like someone, I just like them. I am not thinking about a relationship after the first date or a bang and bounce.

Just getting laid is a pretty easy accomplishment if you spend time in bars and keep your standards low.

However, hormones can significantly blind you. For me, once that rush is gone, it's often led to disinterest. With the "good ones" that have turned into long term relationships or even great ones that were shorter, the feelings didn't flounder after an orgasm.

 

[lefty]

Sorry I'm so late to the party- That really blows.

You sound like a GREAT Guy, you will laugh at yourself (later) for wasting time feeling sad. In the end, you will find someone even better.

 

[rjbrittain11]

Sorry I'm so late to the party- That really blows.

You sound like a GREAT Guy, you will laugh at yourself (later) for wasting time feeling sad. In the end, you will find someone even better.

The sadness was short lived. Read my last post Uhhh...2nd to last post

 

[Holeshot]

Is she on Tinder? Why delete...that makes life so bland!

What happens when I put her in the wall in T4 at Umigo?

 

[rjbrittain11]

Is she on Tinder? Why delete...that makes life so bland!

What happens when I put her in the wall in T4 at Umigo?

Berto, shes not in Tinder, you know this already. Second, visor down, Rubbin' is Racin'...it will be the ultimate test if she can "handle" us

 

[corndog67]

Eh, I don't see why that would be such a big deal and worthy of a "facepalm".

If I like someone, I just like them. I am not thinking about a relationship after the first date or a bang and bounce.

Just getting laid is a pretty easy accomplishment if you spend time in bars and keep your standards low.

However, hormones can significantly blind you. For me, once that rush is gone, it's often led to disinterest. With the "good ones" that have turned into long term relationships or even great ones that were shorter, the feelings didn't flounder after an orgasm.

I've found that usually, the fantasy is better than the reality. Not always, but most times.

As for the friend thing, my ex and I split up about 10, shit 13 years ago. We talk all the time even though she is in Michigan. We could probably pickup right where we left off, if we wanted to. Familiarity and all.

In my mind, I can still smell her (she smelled very nice).

 

[Hooli]

I like to get the sex out of the way, personally. If I still can stand the person after getting the proverbial carrot on a stick, that's a good thing.

I've done the waiting game, several dates and they we hook up. As soon as it happens I realize how much the person annoys me and how I've been putting up with annoying shit just because I want to sleep with them.

Monica.

 

[MrIncredible]

Eh, I don't see why that would be such a big deal and worthy of a "facepalm".

If I like someone, I just like them. I am not thinking about a relationship after the first date or a bang and bounce.

Just getting laid is a pretty easy accomplishment if you spend time in bars and keep your standards low.

However, hormones can significantly blind you. For me, once that rush is gone, it's often led to disinterest. With the "good ones" that have turned into long term relationships or even great ones that were shorter, the feelings didn't flounder after an orgasm.

I just figure a healthy sex life is part of a relationship, and it's not the kind of thing you negotiate about later.

Some people are horrible lays, to the point where no, I don't want to date you, much as I like everything else about you.

The opposite holds true as well-yeah she's unemployed with six kids but, she's got no gag reflex. I need to buy an engagement ring.

I figure something so major should be addressed as soon as possible.

Banging it out asap: The responsible choice.

 

[Hooli]

I just figure a healthy sex life is part of a relationship, and it's not the kind of thing you negotiate about later.

Some people are horrible lays, to the point where no, I don't want to date you, much as I like everything else about you.

The opposite holds true as well-yeah she's unemployed with six kids but, she's got no gag reflex. I need to buy an engagement ring.

I figure something so major should be addressed as soon as possible.

Banging it out asap: The responsible choice.

 

[NorCalAthlete]

Gotta admit there's a fair amount of truth in what RightCoastBias said as far as "With the "good ones" that have turned into long term relationships or even great ones that were shorter, the feelings didn't flounder after an orgasm."

Of course, sometimes that can be achieved simply by masturbating rather than sleeping with the person, but sexual compatibility IS important to any relationship.

Here, let's put it into a different perspective a bit - what if you were dating someone who was pretty awesome, certainly above average, but you found out the only way she could get off or would even agree to sex is as an anime furry? Or enjoyed scat play? Or...etc. Sure, the majority aren't going to be anywhere near that, but there's other pet peeves. Finding out someone flat out refuses to give head is generally a deal breaker. It's like driving a car that doesn't turn left. Sure, you could make do by just always making 3 right turns, but why would you?

 

[rjbrittain11]

Gotta admit there's a fair amount of truth in what RightCoastBias said as far as "With the "good ones" that have turned into long term relationships or even great ones that were shorter, the feelings didn't flounder after an orgasm."

Of course, sometimes that can be achieved simply by masturbating rather than sleeping with the person, but sexual compatibility IS important to any relationship.

Here, let's put it into a different perspective a bit - what if you were dating someone who was pretty awesome, certainly above average, but you found out the only way she could get off or would even agree to sex is as an anime furry? Or enjoyed scat play? Or...etc. Sure, the majority aren't going to be anywhere near that, but there's other pet peeves. Finding out someone flat out refuses to give head is generally a deal breaker. It's like driving a car that doesn't turn left. Sure, you could make do by just always making 3 right turns, but why would you?

ya, if she doesn't give head, I'm done with it.

 

[MrIncredible]

ya, if she doesn't give head, I'm done with it.

Well so far......she hasn't. Might be wasting time!

Take her to karaoke and do a duet:

So NSFW.

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