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Example why dating sucks and I spend $$ on myself

Dubbington said:
We'll see where this goes. She did stay the night :cool Scouts honor! :teeth

My Sagittarius is kicking in and am wondering if we'll click down the road. I look too far forward and don't just live in the moment when it comes to dating.
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:party for Dubs!

DReg350 said:
Dubbs, unless your spidey senses are tingling telling you to run, turn your brain off, buddy. Enjoy the now. Even if the now only means a few more dates. Stop thinking your way out of relationships before they are. :2cents :thumbup
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This would be my response too.
 
Dubbington said:
I can't win with you mf'ers :rant :laughing

and no, I'm not going install a webcam and stream anything live....I couldnt handle the overnight fame.
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I can't tell if you have self esteem issues, OCD, ADHD, or just "I don't know what the fuck I'm doin'" D. :laughing
 
I don't understand women who want some sort of relationship commitment before you've slept together...I mean, sexual compatibility and attraction are a factor of whether I'd want to commit.
 
HappyHighwayman said:
I don't understand women who want some sort of relationship commitment before you've slept together...I mean, sexual compatibility and attraction are a factor of whether I'd want to commit.
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and women can't understand why guys don't want to commit before they've been fucked. physical compatibility is less important to them than love and emotional support.

i agree with the women on this. long term, the sex is less important than the day to day ability to get along and enjoy the company of your better half (let's call it social compatibility). there's 24 hours in a day, even the horniest guy isn't going to spend more than a tiny percentage of time fucking his partner.
 
mike23w said:
and women can't understand why guys don't want to commit before they've been fucked. physical compatibility is less important to them than love and emotional support.

i agree with the women on this. long term, the sex is less important than the day to day ability to get along and enjoy the company of your better half (let's call it social compatibility). there's 24 hours in a day, even the horniest guy isn't going to spend more than a tiny percentage of time fucking his partner.
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No, I get it, and I do understand. But when are you fucking your partner, you want it to be satisfying and fun and a good way to connect. If it sucks, doesn't matter how good the rest of your relationship is, in the long run, unless all you want is all the rest of the stuff that goes with relationships.

I'll admit not having a great sexual chemistry with my last girlfriend definitely helped when it came time to break up...I don't really miss having sex with her.
 
It's a pretty big turn off if the girl is a dead fish in bed. She can be the funniest and athletic and and great job but if there's no physical compatibility its pretty boring.
 
mike23w said:
long term, the sex is less important than the day to day ability to get along and enjoy the company of your better half
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Good sex is getting along and enjoying their company. :laughing
 
mike23w said:
there's 24 hours in a day, even the horniest guy isn't going to spend more than a tiny percentage of time fucking his partner.
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If sleep, work, commuting, showering, cooking and eating take up on average at least 17-18 hours of your day, then of the remaining 6-7 hours you could easily spend 15-20% of it having sex. That's a rather significant portion of your time.
 
jacksprat said:
If sleep, work, commuting, showering, cooking and eating take up on average at least 17-18 hours of your day, then of the remaining 6-7 hours you could easily spend 15-20% of it having sex. That's a rather significant portion of your time.
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Her: So, what are your hobbies?
Him: Sex.
Her: Oh, well yeah, I enjoy that too, but I like hiking, cooking, and finding new music. How about you?
Him: No, really. Sex is my only hobby. Usually I spend the first 30 min warming up with stretches, then I practice oral for an hour. I then go through each "basic" position for the next 1.5 hours, then 1 hour on advanced positions, then spend the rest of the time on various kinks. Depending on what kinks I choose that day, I might spend 30 min cleaning up.
Her: Oh..you weren't kidding.
Him: Yeah, I'm deadly serious about everyone I do. It's basically like my life purpose.
 
LikeWaah said:
Her: So, what are your hobbies?
Him: Sex.
Her: Oh, well yeah, I enjoy that too, but I like hiking, cooking, and finding new music. How about you?
Him: No, really. Sex is my only hobby. Usually I spend the first 30 min warming up with stretches, then I practice oral for an hour. I then go through each "basic" position for the next 1.5 hours, then 1 hour on advanced positions, then spend the rest of the time on various kinks. Depending on what kinks I choose that day, I might spend 30 min cleaning up.
Her: Oh..you weren't kidding.
Him: Yeah, I'm deadly serious about everyone I do. It's basically like my life purpose.
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A friend of mine claimed he has vigorous sex several times a week solely for exercise purposes....dude was in good shape and had a hot girlfriend (now wife). :p
 
HappyHighwayman said:
A friend of mine claimed he has vigorous sex several times a week solely for exercise purposes....dude was in good shape and had a hot girlfriend (now wife). :p
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Sounds like we have a market for a new style of exercise. I willingly offer myself as a personal trainer for qualified clients. :p
 
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