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Is holding hands in public important part of a relationship..?

Hooli said:
Don't know about you but I personally wouldn't want a wife with a penis. :wtf
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I don't believe having a wife with a penis would be that horrible.
You are just too picky!



(the timing of penis post was in response to the what if question posed by the man of meter)
 
Critter said:
For all that advocate PDA's and holding hands I'm all for it when the situation calls for it. BUT in my situation it was a multitude of insecure, controlling, and erratic behavior that doomed our relationship.

And GG1K I totally agree with the boyfriend/mommy thing. The woman I was involved with had a history of taking in straight up dead beats and basically raising/mentoring/life coaching these guys. She was as my grandad put it a "Momma cat".

She was totally used to having guys in her life that absolutely depended on her and she should completely control. She also has major daddy issues from her dad never being around and him pumping out almost 11 illegitimate children.

I'm not that type of guy and it was hard for her to adjust to dealing with someone who had individual thought and could make up their own mind without consulting her. We would be at a restaurant and I would let her order and the waiter would turn to me and she would blurt out...HE'LL HAVE BLAH BLAH BLAH. Without even consulting me.

I would calmly turn to the waiter and say "Uh no I don't want that". And she would have an ATTITUDE the rest of the night. Then it would devolve into some bullshit argument where I would be called foul names, then be accused of F'ing her friends, and all manor of madness.

I remember her organizing a party that I had NO CLUE about and then during the party she would ANNOUNCE you owe me this much money for this party I was so stressed at times I was sure it was affecting my state of mind. But I digress...

Unfortunately you only find out about shit like this the longer you are in a relationship. Now about this Harem costume... :laughing
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:wtf Wow... as a friend of mine once said, "bitch be cray cray, yo!"... damn. I don't imagine I would have invested more than a month or two into someone who tried ordering my food for me without consulting with me first after I squared them away on that the first time it happened... and the first time someone picks a fight with me and calls me foul names, they're out on their ass.
Life is too short to throw away time on someone that damaged...

As far as the harem costume goes... it's pink- looks nice with the grapes... ;)

Melissa said:
I don't believe having a wife with a penis would be that horrible.
You are just too picky!



(the timing of penis post was in response to the what if question posed by the man of meter)
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I figured... but still an epic response! :laughing :thumbup
 
Holding hands--cuz it's actually ok to enjoy touching the people you sleep with. Go figure. :dunno
 
Melissa said:
I don't believe having a wife with a penis would be that horrible.
You are just too picky!



(the timing of penis post was in response to the what if question posed by the man of meter)
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I'm begining to believe you have a penchant for penis posts in general :laughing.

Yeah bro, hold her hand; it's a sign of togetherness to the world and protection :)
 
If I'm into the chick I'm cool with holding her hand. When that stops being cool she'd be right in assuming I'd rather be boinking someone else.
 
*VillageIdiot* said:
Well Mel; I've been absent at worst, intermittent at best :p.

Lots has changed :D
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Where have you been btw?
I hope that your family is happy and healthy and today finds you at peace and thriving in this wonderful and crazy world we call home.
 
I am in "public" to be or go somewhere. Other people are not my concern. I love my lady and thus I hold her hand because I am with her without a concern for others.

+1 to Nemo's post.
 
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Violet and i hold hands in public all the time, most of the time - and uh, sometimes a whole lot more... it would feel REALLY weird not to. and frankly, i cant see being in a successful, meaningful relationship with a woman - and not holding hands on the regular.

i dunno tho, maybe some of these new age Americanized women are so awesomely independent that they dont want to hold hands; or see it as weak or whatever.

fuck. that. mess.
 
Showing affection for your sig other, i.e. holding hands, occasional kiss is totally acceptable in public.. but if you have to fondle, suck face, and grope each other in public that just shows insecurity on one or both parts.

it's like marking your territory and showing everyone that the recipient of you mass affection is yours and everyone else had better stay away.

i always get a chuckle at the super needy and clingy boyfriend who can't let his girl mingle on her own.
 
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