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Missing person help

Been trying to get a hold of his doctor to see if he had any interaction with him but he hasn't been answering his phone or returning my calls.

I emailed the deputy that has been handling the case and asked him what the plan of action was to find my dad and what could be used to demonstrate immediate danger. I also expressed my concern for CCTV footage being erased after a period of time.

No response
 
R3DS!X said:
Been trying to get a hold of his doctor to see if he had any interaction with him but he hasn't been answering his phone or returning my calls.

I emailed the deputy that has been handling the case and asked him what the plan of action was to find my dad and what could be used to demonstrate immediate danger. I also expressed my concern for CCTV footage being erased after a period of time.

No response
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:mad
 
Aaron, so sorry that you're going through all this shit.
 
ThumperX said:
Aaron!! I shared from Eldittie’s fb post not realizing whose father this is.
Would it help if we paid the rent on bhis place? How far behind is he?
I just messaged a friend from HMB for just another set of eyes.
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Let us know if you decide to set up a little fund like Thumper suggested. I wish you some peace in the meantime.
 
Slightly surprised it wasn't there yet, (and hope it's okay, will delete if not), but I shared the post to the "unofficial" fb group to get some more visibility.

Hoping for the best.
 
Instead of the warrant route- have you tried contacting SM County Adult Protective services? They also may have some insight from other county HHS agencies.
 
Does anyone know someone who works at Wells Fargo? If I could see if there were any withdrawals from his account since October it would rule out a lot of theories or confirm others and give me lead(leed?) I need.
 
R3DS!X said:
Does anyone know someone who works at Wells Fargo? If I could see if there were any withdrawals from his account since October it would rule out a lot of theories or confirm others and give me lead(leed?) I need.
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I don't but I double checked my linkedin connections to be sure - y'all you can go to "my network" "connections" "search with filters" and then type in Wells Fargo in "current company" to see if you do.

Aaron, I am really sorry you're going through this.
 
}Dragon{ said:
Instead of the warrant route- have you tried contacting SM County Adult Protective services? They also may have some insight from other county HHS agencies.
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I called them and someone took down my name and number but i haven't heard back form anyone as of yet.
 
Sharxfan said:
Probably not legal but if you know all your dads info you can try to create an account online and access his info that way.
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an account for what? wells fargo? he already has one but i dont know his username or password
 
Have you contacted the social security office? That is if he’s collecting social security or disability.
 
ThumperX said:
Have you contacted the social security office? That is if he’s collecting social security or disability.
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I haven't. How would they help?
 
It sounds like you need power of attorney to get what you need to continue.
 
I'm aching to run over and "help" whatever that might mean, but it's just not in the cards right now. I like the suggestion to open a fund or bank account we can contribute to. I have a feeling you'd get a good response. If so, you could hire somebody with experience looking for missing people.

You seem to have every base already covered so I am reluctant to fixate on any given target but I guess I am going to do it anyway. When I read "asked at local bars" and "lives on the coast", I wanted someone to check the coastline and around any nearby cliffs. I am probably being needlessly dark.

:(
 
R3DS!X said:
an account for what? wells fargo? he already has one but i dont know his username or password
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Do you know his SSN?

Any chance you have his email password?

It's scary what you can do with an SSN, some family history, and a home address over the phone.

"Hi, I'm DAD and can't remember my password."

"Of course, DAD, we can help...we just need to verify you..."
 
buellistic said:
It sounds like you need power of attorney to get what you need to continue.
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Is that possible to get if the person in question is not available to sign?

mjj said:
I'm aching to run over and "help" whatever that might mean, but it's just not in the cards right now. I like the suggestion to open a fund or bank account we can contribute to. I have a feeling you'd get a good response. If so, you could hire somebody with experience looking for missing people.

You seem to have every base already covered so I am reluctant to fixate on any given target but I guess I am going to do it anyway. When I read "asked at local bars" and "lives on the coast", I wanted someone to check the coastline and around any nearby cliffs. I am probably being needlessly dark.

:(
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Appreciate the thought. I'm not out to collect money. Before I go spending money hiring a PI I want to find a couple of things out first. At this point im not sure my thoughts could be any brighter than yours. I think someone did something to him. I don't know if it was them being after his rent money or if someone hit him during an argument and then he fell and didn't get back up and they panicked or what, but i just need to know what happened to him. It doesn't make sense for him to be alive and not seen or heard from for this amount of time.
It's kinda the only thing i can think of that would give me any sort of peace or closure at this point.
 
R3DS!X said:
Is that possible to get if the person thing i can think of that would give me any sort of peace or closure at this point.
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Your family..unable to take care of himself. and other ways you can get power over all asset's
 
berth said:
Do you know his SSN?

Any chance you have his email password?

It's scary what you can do with an SSN, some family history, and a home address over the phone.

"Hi, I'm DAD and can't remember my password."

"Of course, DAD, we can help...we just need to verify you..."
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Yeah, when my dad rolled that truck none of his affairs werein order and he was out of State, but luckily I had his social security card and we have the same name, so I just showed everyone my ID and Passport and gave his SSN and was able to handle everything pretty easily.
 
This Saturday I was planning on heading over to his place to grab his laptop and was going to try calling the bank from his phone to see if I could get by somehow, ya know, by phoning it in...
 
If you have not already tried your best to hack into his accounts I would definitely give that a shot.
 
R3DS!X said:
This Saturday I was planning on heading over to his place to grab his laptop and was going to try calling the bank from his phone to see if I could get by somehow, ya know, by phoning it in...
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If you can get into his laptop maybe he has the email account he used for recovery of passwords logged on and you could possibly reset his password. Did he have a phone? If so did he leave it home and maybe use a one time code to login?
 
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