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Missing person help

I have been kind of following this and am not sure if it has been mentioned but have you looked around his neighborhood to see if anyone has any security cameras or ring doorbells or something that may have recorded him around that time frame so at least you could get a general idea of maybe the direction he was heading? I know my cameras record motion and I have video from months ago and me personally would not mind helping someone out.
 
I have been kind of following this and am not sure if it has been mentioned but have you looked around his neighborhood to see if anyone has any security cameras or ring doorbells or something that may have recorded him around that time frame so at least you could get a general idea of maybe the direction he was heading? I know my cameras record motion and I have video from months ago and me personally would not mind helping someone out.

That sounds like searching for a needle in a barn full of haystacks. It's also something I would absolutely do if my dad went missing.

Still keeping the fingers and toes crossed for you, Aaron. Hoping for a good outcome here.
 
That sounds like searching for a needle in a barn full of haystacks. It's also something I would absolutely do if my dad went missing.

Still keeping the fingers and toes crossed for you, Aaron. Hoping for a good outcome here.

For someone's family missing I would scour months of video for them. Hell someone called and asked me if my cameras caught a dump truck that messed up our local bridge because my camera catches traffic on the road sometimes and I looked through a few days of footage for them but no luck.

If you can find one person to look and you see where he kind of headed then you could start asking along the path of travel and see what you can find.
 
If you or someone you know has TikTok, have them post up the missing person information. TikTok is full of people who like to play detective and solve things.

I didn't think it was true until my wife started showing me all kinds of posts(tiktoks?) of people solving things just like this.
 
I placed your flier on the bookface a few days ago and around 5 friends of mine have since shared it out, two of which grew up in Half Moon Bay, so hopefully that helps extend a meaningful reach.

I will PM if I hear anything.
 
Thanks!

I didn't see anyone with cams around. It's a low income trailer park that he lived in and there aren't any other houses along the way from his place to the shopping centers, banks and main street.

My current head cannon of what happened is he always pays his rent in cash so maybe someone saw him withdrawal a chunk of change and preyed on him on his way to the rental mangers office. I am trying to get a warrant to have Wells Fargo tell me the last withdrawal and then see if I can find CCTV from nearby businesses to see what happened to him after that. But they deputy said they can't get a warrant signed unless we can demonstrate that he's in immediate danger.
 
Sounds like the Sheriff's office is just passing the buck.

He's been missing for over a month, his rent hasn't been paid, he is clearly a missing person and they should be doing their job to try to find where he is.

I'd be calling the Sheriff and telling him that my next call will be to 7 on your side or another TV station if they don't start doing something. Sometimes you need to use leverage to get government people to do their job.
 
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I would hope that if I had been vanished without a trace for 2 months I would be considered "in immediate danger" smh
 
Aaron!! I shared from Eldittie’s fb post not realizing whose father this is.
Would it help if we paid the rent on bhis place? How far behind is he?
I just messaged a friend from HMB for just another set of eyes.
 
Been trying to get a hold of his doctor to see if he had any interaction with him but he hasn't been answering his phone or returning my calls.

I emailed the deputy that has been handling the case and asked him what the plan of action was to find my dad and what could be used to demonstrate immediate danger. I also expressed my concern for CCTV footage being erased after a period of time.

No response
 
Been trying to get a hold of his doctor to see if he had any interaction with him but he hasn't been answering his phone or returning my calls.

I emailed the deputy that has been handling the case and asked him what the plan of action was to find my dad and what could be used to demonstrate immediate danger. I also expressed my concern for CCTV footage being erased after a period of time.

No response

:mad
 
Aaron!! I shared from Eldittie’s fb post not realizing whose father this is.
Would it help if we paid the rent on bhis place? How far behind is he?
I just messaged a friend from HMB for just another set of eyes.

Let us know if you decide to set up a little fund like Thumper suggested. I wish you some peace in the meantime.
 
Slightly surprised it wasn't there yet, (and hope it's okay, will delete if not), but I shared the post to the "unofficial" fb group to get some more visibility.

Hoping for the best.
 
Instead of the warrant route- have you tried contacting SM County Adult Protective services? They also may have some insight from other county HHS agencies.
 
Does anyone know someone who works at Wells Fargo? If I could see if there were any withdrawals from his account since October it would rule out a lot of theories or confirm others and give me lead(leed?) I need.
 
Does anyone know someone who works at Wells Fargo? If I could see if there were any withdrawals from his account since October it would rule out a lot of theories or confirm others and give me lead(leed?) I need.

I don't but I double checked my linkedin connections to be sure - y'all you can go to "my network" "connections" "search with filters" and then type in Wells Fargo in "current company" to see if you do.

Aaron, I am really sorry you're going through this.
 
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