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What Are You Thinking Of Right Now?

Pretty much always. Though I can remember being older to my mom once when she asked me what it was like to take LSD.

I think she smoked marijuana a few times when she went back to college at age 80. Her college was up in Arcata.
 
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I think I can identify with LB. I was shipped to my father’s house, then back to mom’s then to a foster then to my Aunt’s then to here and there and boarding school.
I think lot having children was a choice I made early on. I doubt I picked up any parenting skills from my two.
 
not having children was a choice for me too. i guess i came to have strong opinions about what children needed, and it was intimidating to think i could actually do that. and i wasn’t willing to settle for less.

plus, between me and him, and our bizarre personalities, we figured any kid we raised would never fit in anywhere. it felt like we were avoiding a cruel future for them. either that, or saving society from a future serial killer, lol.
 
I, too, never had children, though the path I took was a bit different from yours and Thumpers. I am the oldest of 12 siblings so in some respects I already had my children. Then I found my first wife was unfaithful and I divorced her. My second wife never felt the urge, though she would have had my child(ren) if I’d wanted them. Since I was getting close to 40. I made the decision not to have children. And I’ve been happy with my decision.
 
Feared children so greatly I got a vasectomy at twenty three. Thought I was good to go.

Lady Fate said "Hold on, despite your best intentions I have a mission for you. Here's two moppets who got handed a raw deal by their biological. I'll need them as rational adults in thirty years, please do your best."

"And that MILF you lust for. . . . . do right by the tads and all your fantasies, and hers, will come true."

Got dealt a royal flush with no draw. Would do it again.
 
I’m thinking, am I mom’s return on investment? She got a kicking deal.
I think the process of caring for a parent teaches one a lot about herself.

I think having a dog is amazing.
 
I’m thinking that my father’s birthday is today. He’d have been 100 years old today. Unfortunately he died in 1979, just before my first marriage, at the young age of 54. I’ve already lived almost 20 years beyond him.
 
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