Brokenlink
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I'm feeling a little weird.
I'm trying to table this with my mom... She understands her sons will never ever play well with each other. I get frustrated because he is such a terrible person. The burden feels like it's on me and I hate that. Why should I feel bad for being the good son? Mom wants us to come together. I feel like I'm the only person who decides how this goes. Why? Because my mom would never choose between her two sons and I would never ask her to do that.d
Mom was telling of her hope that the 3 of could come together. That will not be happening because my brother is not a good person and any time spent with him is not just wasted but time spent doing something more positive.
Listening to this song sparked memory. The Beatles - Come Together I was listening the whole time but I told her, the Michael Jackson version of that song is so much better.
Fite me
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Sometimes you have to compromise if you want to make your mom happy. I know you have history with your brother. And it doesn't mean you have to make amends. But being in the same place at the same time can make your mom happy and won't be the end of the world.